I've become afraid of sex.
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I've become afraid of sex.
| Tue, 04-04-2006 - 3:16am |
I think that I have become afraid of sex.
I got out of a relationship (about 4/5 months ago) with a man that I wasn't able to have sex with, so it's been nearly 2 years since my last sex!!!!
Now, single and loving it- I'm really wanting to have sex again.


Why were you not able to have sex with your last partner for 2 years?
Are you afraid of sex, or are you afraid of the feelings and/or commitment that might go with it? You've had a bad (or unfulfilling) relationship, and are afraid to get involved again.
Why not concentrate on finding someone you're compatible with, and try building a relationship first. With feelings, the fear of sex should be a moot point.
"Offers" of sex....why waste your time with that. Find an offer of friendship and companionship.....and save the sex till you know what the other person is like.
I wasn't able to have sex with my last boyfriend for he was a paraplegic and no matter what type of medication he took; he was unable to become erect.