I've Never Had An Orgasm... :(

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Registered: 02-14-2004
I've Never Had An Orgasm... :(
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 2:37pm
I am 23 years old & have never had an orgasm. I know I'm missing out. I have been on birth control since I was 15 years old & I take medications (Effexor & Strattera). Could this be why I have never experienced an orgasm? I hate my sex life. I can never get wet. Never. I am dry as sandpaper. Oral sex won't even do anything for me. And my minds just kinda wonders off, when I'm having sex with my man (we've been together almost 2 years...), which is part off the ADD/ ADHD. Please help!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 7:50am

Your problem not being able to orgasm is most likely due to the other things you are doing that you mentioned on the other message board.


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Registered: 02-14-2004
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 12:35am
What are you talking about, tish? Maybe it's stress... you think?
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Registered: 02-14-2004
Fri, 01-21-2005 - 3:07am
I am still 23 and it's 2005 all ready and I still haven't had one...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 01-21-2005 - 8:09am
Hightek, drugs affect every part of your mind & body, including your sexual response.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 01-21-2005 - 9:07am

Orgasms are the least of your problem! Some women DON'T have orgasms....even when their brain isn't fried from drugs. Some women need to mature sexually before they can allow themselves to have them......

If you don't take care of your drug problem, you may not live long enough to have an orgasm. Get your priorities straight, and take care of your real problems before you waste your time and energy worrying about something that means nothing.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-21-2005 - 2:33pm
Frankly, I think I would be more worried about what kind of permanent damage the drugs are doing to my brain, rather than my inability to orgasm!


Edited 1/21/2005 2:35 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 02-14-2004
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 8:35pm
You guys are sooo right. I need to kick my drug habit.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 8:42pm

Okay then Hightek.......here you go, this could be your first step this very minute.


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Sat, 01-22-2005 - 9:42pm




Edited 1/22/2005 10:14 pm ET ET by sammykisses
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Sat, 01-22-2005 - 10:05pm
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