ivillage abusive to women?
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| Wed, 11-29-2006 - 11:34am |
I saw this technique for oral sex on this web site:
Back Him Up
As he's getting undressed, lie on the bed with your head where your feet usually go, rather than perched on the pillows. As he walks toward the bed, slide down so your head is hanging over the bed, grab his buttock cheeks and take his penis into your mouth. Your head should be off the bed as you give him oral sex upside down. He's ultimately in control of the thrusting, but you can use your hands as a guide to speed him up or slow him down. Not only does this look sexy, but it also opens your throat wide so you can take in more of him without gagging.
I've seen this act cited as one of the common acts in porn that is degrading to women; yet, it is being promoted as a sex trick on this site. What do you think?

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I've done this before and didn't care for it, but not because I felt it was degrading but because I felt clautrophobic! My eyes and nose were covered by his scrotum!
As the others have said though, we each bring our own personal experiences, views and feelings about any act to bed with us, so what's degrading to one, won't be to another.
Well, honestly.
To each is own. So, for something you may find degrading, another may not. Then again,not everybody watches porn, or may have caught a porno where that is fetured. While someone may be an over tohe top freak, another may not. So, it really depends on the person looking at it. Either way, Cosmo is a neutral site; in between. So it has to feture things that are able to go either way for the satisfactory to all types of people. Gotta keep that in mind. I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying you need to be open minded.
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