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Jeez I jus keep coming up with questions
| Mon, 05-09-2005 - 8:23pm |
Ok so I have finally considered doing anal sex with my boyfriend. Im not excited but im curious. Im really really embarrased about this question and im trying to make it not sound gross but here it goes ... I know that when having anal sex you have to loosen up and not be tense and he has to go really slow with lots of lube .. if he doesnt go slow enough or if there isnt enough lube and he pulls out .. can he ( blushing, embarrased face ) pull out your rectum. Is that a myth or can it really happen because thats what someone told me. And now im nervous .. i like my butt the way it is !

Your rectum cannot be pulled out. You need to stop listening to people who don't have a clue what they're talking about.
Your rectum can fall out, it's called a prolapsed rectum, and that's due to weakened muscles and veins. It's a painful condition, but it is NOT caused by anal sex. He can tear you, but he can't pull it out.
there are lubes available specifically formulated for anal sex. They are ticker consistency than K-Y and the other vaginal lubes. Try a sex shop such as www.arentwenaughty.com
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Any kind of lube made for sex will work, KY, Astroglide, etc.
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http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_602026,00.html
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