What would you like us to call you here? Kristy is fine.
How often do you visit the board? Several times a week.
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity? Not too much. It was with my BF of almost a year, so we just gradually worked our way to it.
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL? No surprises there for me. I have 2 younger brothers, and a Dad that didn't really like wearing clothes all that much and wasn't shy. LOL. I just kind a grew up around it.
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time? Since it was with my BF who was also my best friend it didn't bother me much. I was very comfortable with him.
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
Hello Misty:
Thank you for welcoming me, I am usually on the Fantasies board. I post more there and lurk on the other boards. You can call me Laura or Kiss either one is fine with me. I lost my Virginity at 21, I know I was a late bloomer. It was with someone I knew for a long time, but we werent in love and he was absoulety brutal. It was no unromantic and I knew that this could not be what everyone was raving about. My first reaction to seeing his penis was OMG! There is no way that big thing is going to fit, it did but that was why it hurt so much. What is IRL?
I was very nervous about him seeing me naked, I was so self consious I made him turn out the lights after he took off my clothes. Thank Goodness I have gotten over those issues and sex became great and something I looked forward too. I find that the older I get the better I get. I'm 39 and in my prime. How do you feel about it?
>> How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
Very...especially losing it to an experienced 38 year old when I was 24 years old.
>> What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
Fascination. I've only looked in great detail two woman's genitals...my recent EX and my current girlfriend.
>> How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
Nervous. It seemed that many of my sexual encounters have occurred in the dark and they did not get a chance to see my genitals. My current girlfriend loves playing with my penis and balls. She also loves tickling my ass. :) She seems fascinated about my genitals for the most part. She has not given me a blow job yet, only hand jobs, which feel just as good. :) I think that since she has herpes she's concerned about passing it on to my genitals through blow jobs.
How often do you visit the board? I'm new! This is the first time I've been on this board
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity? I guess I was a bit nervous but too excited to care!
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL? 'that's not pretty...' lol
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time? The first time that happened we were mostly in the dark so I wasn't too concerned because he wasn't seeing much...
Whether or not she could pass Herpes to you via oral sex would depend on what kind of Herpes she has, Simplex 1 or 2. Statistically, many people have the Herpes virus in their system and often never even know it. Cold sores or fever blisters are related to Simplex 1, and can be transferred to genitals through oral sex; however, that is such a common virus and is rarely transmitted without the presence of a sore.
It may be helpful to both of you to get tested for both strands of the virus. A simple blood test can tell you if the antibodies are present. If present, it could change your concerns -- as many people carry the antibodies for BOTH strands, yet never have an outbreak of any kind. Reading up on Herpes can also be helpful for both of you. While it's never guaranteed that you won't catch it from her, there are definitely ways to lead a healthy sex life in spite of the virus.
Here are some resources that you might find helpful, including a message board on iVillage for Herpes and other STDs.
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What would you like us to call you here?
Kristy is fine.
How often do you visit the board?
Several times a week.
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
Not too much. It was with my BF of almost a year, so we just gradually worked our way to it.
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
No surprises there for me. I have 2 younger brothers, and a Dad that didn't really like wearing clothes all that much and wasn't shy. LOL. I just kind a grew up around it.
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
Since it was with my BF who was also my best friend it didn't bother me much. I was very comfortable with him.
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What would you like us to call you here?
How often do you visit the board?
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
Hello Misty:
Thank you for welcoming me, I am usually on the Fantasies board. I post more there and lurk on the other boards. You can call me Laura or Kiss either one is fine with me. I lost my Virginity at 21, I know I was a late bloomer. It was with someone I knew for a long time, but we werent in love and he was absoulety brutal. It was no unromantic and I knew that this could not be what everyone was raving about. My first reaction to seeing his penis was OMG! There is no way that big thing is going to fit, it did but that was why it hurt so much. What is IRL?
I was very nervous about him seeing me naked, I was so self consious I made him turn out the lights after he took off my clothes. Thank Goodness I have gotten over those issues and sex became great and something I looked forward too. I find that the older I get the better I get. I'm 39 and in my prime. How do you feel about it?
Hi Steve:
Happy 4th! Thank you for the definition. I feel very dumb now. IRL (In Real Life, she says while smacking herself in the head):)
What would you like us to call you here?
Scott
How often do you visit the board?
Usually a couple times a week.
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
I started kind of late, I was 21 at the time, so I was a little nervous to be honest.
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
I never really saw them before so I was excited.
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
I was a little nervous at first but then i got adjusted to it.
>> What would you like us to call you here?
Anthro
>> How often do you visit the board?
Every few days.
>> How nervous were you about loosing your virginity?
Very...especially losing it to an experienced 38 year old when I was 24 years old.
>> What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL?
Fascination. I've only looked in great detail two woman's genitals...my recent EX and my current girlfriend.
>> How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time?
Nervous. It seemed that many of my sexual encounters have occurred in the dark and they did not get a chance to see my genitals. My current girlfriend loves playing with my penis and balls. She also loves tickling my ass. :) She seems fascinated about my genitals for the most part. She has not given me a blow job yet, only hand jobs, which feel just as good. :) I think that since she has herpes she's concerned about passing it on to my genitals through blow jobs.
What would you like us to call you here? Lila
How often do you visit the board? I'm new! This is the first time I've been on this board
How nervous were you about loosing your virginity? I guess I was a bit nervous but too excited to care!
What was your first reaction to seeing naked genitals IRL? 'that's not pretty...' lol
How did you feel about someone seeing your naked genitals for the first time? The first time that happened we were mostly in the dark so I wasn't too concerned because he wasn't seeing much...
Whether or not she could pass Herpes to you via oral sex would depend on what kind of Herpes she has, Simplex 1 or 2. Statistically, many people have the Herpes virus in their system and often never even know it. Cold sores or fever blisters are related to Simplex 1, and can be transferred to genitals through oral sex; however, that is such a common virus and is rarely transmitted without the presence of a sore.
It may be helpful to both of you to get tested for both strands of the virus. A simple blood test can tell you if the antibodies are present. If present, it could change your concerns -- as many people carry the antibodies for BOTH strands, yet never have an outbreak of any kind. Reading up on Herpes can also be helpful for both of you. While it's never guaranteed that you won't catch it from her, there are definitely ways to lead a healthy sex life in spite of the virus.
Here are some resources that you might find helpful, including a message board on iVillage for Herpes and other STDs.
Cold Sores: What Causes Them?
http://parenting.ivillage.com/tp/tphealth/0,,3q4f,00.html
How Contagious is Oral Herpes?
http://health.ivillage.com/dental/dmouthsores/0,,6hjc,00.html
Health Tip: Genital Herpes Can Be Spread Without Symptoms
People with no signs may still be contagious
http://health.ivillage.com/infectious/0,,wbnews_9dhjn3fq,00.html
Genital Herpes: Fast Facts
http://health.ivillage.com/gynostds/gherpes/topics/0,,4v67,00.html?ice=ivl,searcht
Partner with Genital Herpes
http://health.ivillage.com/gynostds/gherpes/0,,4qdr,00.html
Herpes, HPV & Other STDs (message board)
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-bhsexdisease
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