just curious

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Sun, 05-01-2005 - 11:53pm
usually how long does it take for a woman to make her man cum in intercourse? does it help if can control her vaginal muscle?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 12:09am

It's up to the man - not the woman.

A man can orgasm within 20 seconds or may take two hours. It's all up to him.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 12:30am

1. A woman doesn't "make" a man ejaculate. That's entirely up to him. No more than a man "makes" a woman have an orgasm. It's all up to her.

2. As Aisha said, anywhere from 20 seconds to an hour, or maybe never. Some men have difficulties in that department, and that has nothing to do with the woman either.

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In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 12:44am
i was told some prositutes can make her customer cum quick so they can move to the other. how they do that?
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In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 12:52am
don't believe everything you hear ;-)
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In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 1:00am

I'm not disagreeing with what the others have said, but at the same time, if a woman can intensely stimulate a man she can make it awfully hard for him to prevent himself from cumming. I know that when my partner is very horney, gets on top and uses her muscles and vigorously bounces around, it's very very difficult to hold off!

How do you intensely stimulate a man? Use your muscles and squeeze his penis rhythmically, swing your hips around, fondle his penis and testicles (if that's what he likes), talk dirty if that's what he likes). Use a sexy postion that he likes, wear lingerie or whatever turns him on and stimulate him visually too. Take control and make sure that you are doing the stimulation and he can't slow you down. All the simple stuff really.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 1:56am

Agreed.......IF we have a "normal" guy with no hangups, no problems, etc. You know from reading here that there are LOTS of guys who DO have problems......and nothing will work for them. Even if it's only nervousness, that can make him "lose it" in seconds, or make him unable to finish at all.

As for the "muscle" flexing, I can do it, and have been told it feels great, but others have said they didn't even notice it. Go figure!

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 2:02am

The type of prostitute that's "servicing" many men in an evening, or whatever time of day, are not exactly high class call girls. The type of man that uses that kind of prostitute probably has some problems anyway, otherwise they wouldn't need the services of a professional......they'd get it from an "ordinary" woman.

Besides, what's the hurry? If you're with a good lover, and enjoying yourself, why would you want to make it be over quickly? There are more complaints from women who say their man can't last long enough than there are from women who's partner takes too long!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 7:19am

It all depend on the guy, some only last seconds or minutes, other guys can last until they want to cum how ever long that is.


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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 7:58am
Experience tells me that most men don't have as much control over their ejaculations as we, perhaps, think they have, just like they don't have control over their erections. I have had partners who want a long romantic session and haven't been able to keep themselves from cumming as soon as they have entered me. Personally, I don't want to rush when I am in bed with a guy. Elaine
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sue19522001
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:50am
That depends on if they have learned how to control their ejaculation.

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