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| Sun, 05-01-2005 - 11:53pm |
usually how long does it take for a woman to make her man cum in intercourse? does it help if can control her vaginal muscle?
| Sun, 05-01-2005 - 11:53pm |
It's up to the man - not the woman.
A man can orgasm within 20 seconds or may take two hours. It's all up to him.
1. A woman doesn't "make" a man ejaculate. That's entirely up to him. No more than a man "makes" a woman have an orgasm. It's all up to her.
2. As Aisha said, anywhere from 20 seconds to an hour, or maybe never. Some men have difficulties in that department, and that has nothing to do with the woman either.
I'm not disagreeing with what the others have said, but at the same time, if a woman can intensely stimulate a man she can make it awfully hard for him to prevent himself from cumming. I know that when my partner is very horney, gets on top and uses her muscles and vigorously bounces around, it's very very difficult to hold off!
How do you intensely stimulate a man? Use your muscles and squeeze his penis rhythmically, swing your hips around, fondle his penis and testicles (if that's what he likes), talk dirty if that's what he likes). Use a sexy postion that he likes, wear lingerie or whatever turns him on and stimulate him visually too. Take control and make sure that you are doing the stimulation and he can't slow you down. All the simple stuff really.
Agreed.......IF we have a "normal" guy with no hangups, no problems, etc. You know from reading here that there are LOTS of guys who DO have problems......and nothing will work for them. Even if it's only nervousness, that can make him "lose it" in seconds, or make him unable to finish at all.
As for the "muscle" flexing, I can do it, and have been told it feels great, but others have said they didn't even notice it. Go figure!
The type of prostitute that's "servicing" many men in an evening, or whatever time of day, are not exactly high class call girls. The type of man that uses that kind of prostitute probably has some problems anyway, otherwise they wouldn't need the services of a professional......they'd get it from an "ordinary" woman.
Besides, what's the hurry? If you're with a good lover, and enjoying yourself, why would you want to make it be over quickly? There are more complaints from women who say their man can't last long enough than there are from women who's partner takes too long!
It all depend on the guy, some only last seconds or minutes, other guys can last until they want to cum how ever long that is.