justs wants sex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
justs wants sex?
20
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 1:00pm
If you meet someone, and he lets you notice him check out your body, focusing on hip region for 5-10 seconds... is he sending vibes that he wants to sleep with you, go down on you, or just acting rude?

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 1:25pm
I pick "D" all of the above
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 1:58pm

Hello,

I think he is sending a message that he wants get physical. I met a guy who deliberately stared at the same area you mention. He knew that I was feeling uncomfortable but that's what he was trying to do, he wanted me to know that he was interested sexually in me.
I found such behaviour a turn on, to be honest. Since then, I couldn't take out of my mind the idea of having sex with him. And everytime we met he did the same.

To be short, eventually I gave up and we became lovers. I love it, he is the best lover I've ever had. Ironically, the way he looked at me was just the only thing that make me get interested in him.

Iliana

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 1:59pm
so no interest? purely sexual.....?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 2:06pm
Yes, I'm sure he's interested. I just don't think it's a very respectful way of showing it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 2:08pm
I find him very attractive, and i think its a huge turn on, but i feel guilty-- cuz everyone says its wrong of him,,, r u guys dating seriosly?? or its all about hooking up? does it show hes experienced? or inexperienced? maybe hes a curios virgin?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 2:09pm
is he a virgin possible? or most likeley very experienced?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 2:14pm
I have no idea. If anything, I'd say he's undressing you with his eyes. it doesn't take experience to imagine.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 2:18pm
i did at first feel a little violated, becuz i was like wut could he be thinking??? that wut bothers me, but then i figure maybe he finds me attractive..........becuz u think maybe i look fat, maybe too skinny, hips too big, too small, he was really focused,....??



Edited 5/6/2005 2:19 pm ET ET by cuteg345
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 3:15pm

There's only one sure way of finding out. DON'T have sex with him. If he continues to show interest, then he's interested in you, not your body.

There's no way of knowing what anyone is thinking from a "look". Get to know him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 3:21pm
i willl....thanx, but u think hes intersted??

Pages