Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......
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Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......
| Sat, 11-06-2004 - 11:50am |
This is for everyone to answer Especially the women here.
1.What is your opinion and on them?
2.What is your feelings about them?
3.Would you allow your partner to see one?
4.Would you go to one yourself?
5.What would be your feelings if your partner told you that they think that they needed and wanted to see one?
6.What would be your feelings if your partner asked the both of you to go see one?
7.Would you go see one as a couple?
8.What is your feelings on a person or couples going to them?
Thanks for answering them,
Howie_t

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1.What is your opinion and on them?
It's the world's oldest profession. Keeping the profession legal helps to give the women a better life.
2.What is your feelings about them?
No feelings.
3.Would you allow your partner to see one?
No. But why would he want to when he's got a great lover here at home? Anyway, if he was that desperate for extra-marital sex (which he's not) he can get it without paying for it.
4.Would you go to one yourself?
Not on your life. I'm a woman LOL. If I was single and desperate for sex, I could find it without parting with cash. Besides that, who knows what diseases he may be carrying after sleeping with so many woman. Ewwww. Having said all that, I'd rather be celebate than having meaningless sex.
5.What would be your feelings if your partner told you that they think that they needed and wanted to see one?
he wouldn't want to see one.
6.What would be your feelings if your partner asked the both of you to go see one?
He wouldn't ask. The sex is too great at home and we are content being just the two of us. Besides, if we wanted group sex - that is also available for free - why pay for it?
7.Would you go see one as a couple?
see q. 6
8.What is your feelings on a person or couples going to them?
Assuming it's not me? Whatever floats your boat - I'm not going to judge couples that make a mutual, informed decision.
A sexual surrogate is actually someone who works with a therapist to help people overcome sexual problems.
Seriously though, I believe that sexual dysfuntion stems from the mind, so in that case, I'd see a shrink or sex therapist if there were issues.
If you've found one who's for hire for anyone, without a therapist's recommendation.....she's a prostitute.
Thanks for the answers I have gotten
Howie_t
While I certainly agree that there is a place for sex therapists, I can't see how a surrogate or whatever you care to call them is going to help.
A good sexual relationship can develop between two people that have a good and hopefully loving relationship. I would imagine that virtually any sexual problem can be worked through by a couple committed, first and foremost, to their relationship. I'm sure that they can take advice from the therapist.
I personally can't see how a clinical situation with what is basically a supervised prostitute is going to do any overall good. While you might have solved one problem, you now have a slanted view of what a normal sexual relationship is because you have been involved in an extremely artificial sexual relationship.
Sounds like a heap of new-age bull manure to me.
What sort of sex issues are you having? Are they anything we can offer suggestions on?
Thanks
Howie_t
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