Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......

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Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 11:50am
This is for everyone to answer Especially the women here.


1.What is your opinion and on them?

2.What is your feelings about them?

3.Would you allow your partner to see one?

4.Would you go to one yourself?

5.What would be your feelings if your partner told you that they think that they needed and wanted to see one?

6.What would be your feelings if your partner asked the both of you to go see one?

7.Would you go see one as a couple?

8.What is your feelings on a person or couples going to them?

Thanks for answering them,

Howie_t

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 3:37pm
Ummm.....do you mean a prostitute? I'm afraid that I can't give you great answers here, because we have a great sexual relationship. Besides, DH has never been attracted to prostitutes even when single. He'd rather go and get drunk with the boys if single.

1.What is your opinion and on them?

It's the world's oldest profession. Keeping the profession legal helps to give the women a better life.

2.What is your feelings about them?

No feelings.

3.Would you allow your partner to see one?

No. But why would he want to when he's got a great lover here at home? Anyway, if he was that desperate for extra-marital sex (which he's not) he can get it without paying for it.

4.Would you go to one yourself?

Not on your life. I'm a woman LOL. If I was single and desperate for sex, I could find it without parting with cash. Besides that, who knows what diseases he may be carrying after sleeping with so many woman. Ewwww. Having said all that, I'd rather be celebate than having meaningless sex.

5.What would be your feelings if your partner told you that they think that they needed and wanted to see one?

he wouldn't want to see one.

6.What would be your feelings if your partner asked the both of you to go see one?

He wouldn't ask. The sex is too great at home and we are content being just the two of us. Besides, if we wanted group sex - that is also available for free - why pay for it?

7.Would you go see one as a couple?

see q. 6

8.What is your feelings on a person or couples going to them?

Assuming it's not me? Whatever floats your boat - I'm not going to judge couples that make a mutual, informed decision.

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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 3:57pm

A sexual surrogate is actually someone who works with a therapist to help people overcome sexual problems.


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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 8:37pm
No not a prostitute.A sex surrogate,someone who help men,women,and couple with problem containing to sex or sexual disfuntion.
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 10:38pm
ROTFL In that case, we definately wouldn't need one! No probs over here.

Seriously though, I believe that sexual dysfuntion stems from the mind, so in that case, I'd see a shrink or sex therapist if there were issues.

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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 11:13pm
As Tish said, a sexual surrogate works in conjunction with a therapist. One doesn't just decide to see a sexual surrogate, it's "prescribed" by the therapist.

If you've found one who's for hire for anyone, without a therapist's recommendation.....she's a prostitute.

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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 9:38am
I agree with Greenteabag, you have to

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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 1:02pm
I know all of that.I have heard and seen on TV about all of this and I came here to see what all of you thought about really them.I am having a couple of problems and has for the last few months trying to find a sex therapist,But where I live there isn't any real sex therapist.The ONLY therapist around is the ones who deal with mental or marital problems. The reason that I know that is that I have when to talk with my doctor and she told me (after doing some checking for me)that I would have to go out of the state of VA to see sex therapist.She also said that she would see what she can do for me far as finding someone where I won't have to travel too far out of VA. Anyway like I said I am here to see what you all thought about them,whether it was a bad thing to do or not,That's all.

Thanks for the answers I have gotten

Howie_t

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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 4:19pm
Sorry, Howie, but I personally think it's the most stupid idea that I've heard in a long time.

While I certainly agree that there is a place for sex therapists, I can't see how a surrogate or whatever you care to call them is going to help.

A good sexual relationship can develop between two people that have a good and hopefully loving relationship. I would imagine that virtually any sexual problem can be worked through by a couple committed, first and foremost, to their relationship. I'm sure that they can take advice from the therapist.

I personally can't see how a clinical situation with what is basically a supervised prostitute is going to do any overall good. While you might have solved one problem, you now have a slanted view of what a normal sexual relationship is because you have been involved in an extremely artificial sexual relationship.

Sounds like a heap of new-age bull manure to me.

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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 4:24pm
Oh Howie, why didn't you write all this pertinent info in the first place, rather than putting up a poll with no info on why you're asking?

What sort of sex issues are you having? Are they anything we can offer suggestions on?

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Mon, 11-08-2004 - 3:09pm
You might be able to help.Can I talk with you about it through email first before posting it here on the board?If so Email me at Howiet_2004@yahoo.com.

Thanks

Howie_t

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