Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......

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Registered: 06-25-2004
Kind Of A Poll......Sex Surrogates......
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 11:50am
This is for everyone to answer Especially the women here.


1.What is your opinion and on them?

2.What is your feelings about them?

3.Would you allow your partner to see one?

4.Would you go to one yourself?

5.What would be your feelings if your partner told you that they think that they needed and wanted to see one?

6.What would be your feelings if your partner asked the both of you to go see one?

7.Would you go see one as a couple?

8.What is your feelings on a person or couples going to them?

Thanks for answering them,

Howie_t

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Registered: 06-25-2004
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:01pm
Thanks for emailing me and encourging me to post it.

Well my problem is that I can't keep an erection with her and when I do.It's just long enough to put it in her.Then once I am inside of her,I am ejaculating within 2 to 3 mins once I'm inside of her.We have tried everything we can think of and nothing seems to be working.I am begining to loose comfordents(sorry of the spelling)in myself of being able to function in that part like a man suppose to do.I REALLY need help on this.It's VERY embarrasing.PLEASE!! help if you can.

When I said that we have tried everything that we can think of,I am talking about she taking her time going down on me and everything else containing to forplay and touching.

Howie_t

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 8:12am
Have you talked to your doctor and had a complete physical? If there are no relationship problems that you are going through, it may be a *physical* problem.
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Registered: 06-25-2004
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 10:23am
Yes I have and that's why I mention in the post before the last one about her finding me a sex therapist who might can help to see what is going on.I and she have searched for one here in Virginia and haven't found one.The closest one she found is in North Carolina

and Maryland,which North Carolina is the closest to me than maryland is.She has told me that she would want me to see a therapsit and NOT someone who works with sex surrocates.I agreed.Because I don't know about seeing someone who works with sex surrocates and you would have to see that person too.Just don't know how I would really feel about doing that,Because if it's true of what I have heard about what sex surrocates do.I might wouldn't feel right about doing what they do with their clients.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 4:50pm
I think that a sex therapist would be a good idea. They should have some ideas and will be able to help you examine the reasons behind your inability to maintain an erection. They should have some good exercises that you can practice to help maintain an erection too.

You should do some more reading on the 'net too. Although some websites have to be taken with a grain of salt there can be a lot of useful information to be found. As they say, knowledge is power.

Personally, I don't think that only lasting 2 or 3 minutes after penetration isn't all that unusual. It takes practice to prevent yourself from cumming fast. Sounds to me like you're reasonably normal in that respect when you can maintain an erection for intercourse. I bet that it feels so good to be finally inside her that it's difficult to contain yourself - so to speak! :-) I'm sure that I'd be the same if actual intercourse only happened infrequently.

How often do you have sex in a week? Of those times, how often are you unable to maintain an erection?

Can you get a full, hard erection? Can you get a full, hard erection before you loose it and are unable to continue with intercourse?

How old are you? Are you on medication? Stress? Other health problems? Relationship problems?

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 9:55pm
"Personally, I don't think that only lasting 2 or 3 minutes after penetration isn't all that unusual.

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That's what I was thinking when I read the post. DH and I do all sorts of foreplay and whatnot, but once we actually start intercourse, it may only be a few minutes. Not all the time, but enough -and I don't consider that unusual.

Howie - as far as maintaining an erection, have you tried Viagra or Levitra?

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