Lactating

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Lactating
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Fri, 12-23-2005 - 10:48am

I'm interested to know how some enjoy being intimate w/ DH in a way that includes breastmilk.

What are the ways you share(d) your breasts with him while you were lactating? Did you wait until you were weaning before granting him this favor? Or did you each enjoy this time as a nursing mom (when alone away from the baby)?

When and where? In bed? On the sofa? Dressed? Undressed? At night? In the morning? Always as a part of other sex? Or sometimes just letting him suckle from you without especial other touching?

Did he ask? Or did you offer? How'd he ask? How quick were you to agree? What did he ask? What did you, or do you, like?

Please tell.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: muliebria
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 11:06am
I breast fed both of our kids until they

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In reply to: muliebria
Fri, 12-23-2005 - 4:17pm
My breast milk was for my babies. My DH tasted my breast milk as part of lovemaking at times, but he never nursed at my breasts, even when they were weaning. That would have taken necessary nutrition away from our children. Breast milk is for babies, not husbands, IMO.
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In reply to: muliebria
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 2:47am

My ex and I really enjoyed suckling. We waited until the little ones were in the process of weaning and she often had excess milk. I got to finish her off when the little one would be full.

It was pretty much something that would happen around the middle of foreplay. Once she started getting aroused, she would start squirting out if I didn't slurp it up. And it pretty much happened the way that any other sort of sex happened -- dressed, undressed, in the living room (I had a big old sofa chair that was great for sex), in bed. NOT anywhere that people would find us. There are so many people that are so uptight about the concept that we figured it would get us into a lot of trouble.

BTW, it's always bothered me the way that people get so disgusted at the idea of tasting breast milk. I see that on tv and in the movies as well as hearing comments. It tastes great as well as being an experience that only gets to be shared as a result of creating a child. I don't do promiscuous sex anyway, but I just don't think that I would want to suckle except from the mother of my child (and wife). It just seemed like something really special that was shared between my wife and me.

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In reply to: muliebria
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 9:40am

I'm not one that is disgusted by it, it's just not something Dh or I cared to do or found anything special about


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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: muliebria
Sat, 12-24-2005 - 3:30pm
I breastfed all 3 kids, exclusively at first and as long as 19 months.
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In reply to: muliebria
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 9:20am

nursed both our dd's. i did get dh to both help and have his turn, sometimes it was non sexual.my breasts are very sensitive and responsive while i nursed i did get aroused, my breasts got a full size large (from 34a/b to 36b). yes we have done many and most things we could do with my breasts/milk. my god i am blushing.

kate

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In reply to: muliebria
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 12:39pm

Kate, thank you. Trying to imagine flush on your face as you blushed. :)

"yes we have done many and most things we could do with my breasts/milk"

Your comments have my mind trying to imagine of what might comprise "many and most things".

Again, thanks.




Edited 12/26/2005 2:51 pm ET by muliebria
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In reply to: muliebria
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 2:50pm

Posted at Solo Sex:

Any stories from you ladies reading this of how you may have enjoyed your breasts and milk while plesuring self as a nursing mom or weaning mom? How so? What would you, or do you do? How long after weaning would you still enjoy being a lactating woman as you masturbated?

Any suggestions on how to find joy including breast play during self-stimulation?

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Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: muliebria
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 4:43pm
I am a new Mother. I had my baby girl in September. Not married, But I've found several guys to be really into it. I have an incredible amount of milk so its actually a relief in some ways to get rid of it. During sex - it just starts flowing out and uh, not to gross anyone out, but I swear I can squirt it clear across a room. I've found guys who like the messy sloppy lovemaking like the milk the best. A couple have tried sucking on my breasts, but there really is too much. We do a lot of breast lovemaking (for lack of the other term). I think they really just like to see it run out all over us. With as much milk as I have, it's always both undressed with some kind of sheet or towels under us. They all asked and were super curious. I had no qualms about it myself - like I say, it relieves some of the buildup and makes for some wet and sloppy sex.
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In reply to: muliebria
Tue, 12-27-2005 - 7:17pm

Not gross at all, the squirting....

As for the rest you desccribe, you have me blushing.