Lactating, am I pregnant?
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Lactating, am I pregnant?
| Sat, 04-09-2005 - 12:16am |
My boyfriend and i were having sex about 2 weeks ago or so. He started feeling my breasts and out of nowhere he came out and said 'youre lactating, you might be pregnant'. i didnt believe him so he squeezed my right breast and i did start to lactate. Does that mean that i might be pregnant? I also have a few symtoms of pregnancy: missed period 2 weeks now, feeling nausious, nipples are sensitive, urinating frequently, and feel more tired... I did take a pregnancy test at this clinic where i live on Monday, it came back negative. So they told me to come back in a week b/c the HCG hormone might not be in my system yet or may not be high enough to tell. please give me some info on what you guys things.. Thanks!

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I guess it's just that having a baby is a big deal for me. 2 of my friends got pregnant unexpectadely this year - 1 already having issues the baby is only 10 weeks. Personally this girls situation, from what we have been told, (bf - ex not on good terms, doesn't see child, hoping to plan pregnancy) doesn't all add up FOR ME. I guess I have to be more specific in these posts.
It sure as heck seems like this woman is trying to replace his son from a previous relationship. It's unfortunate he and his ex can't work things out for the sake of the child but for God's sake, don't think that by getting pregnant and giving him access to another child will put you on a higher pedistal. All I'm saying is that very same situation could be you in a few years. You just never know. And if y'all are seriously really seriously trying to have a baby and you've considered childcare, expenses time off blah blah etc etc etc and you plan on being together long term ie for the rest of your lives then and only then may a planned pregnancy in your situation actually turn out for the better. But in all honesty my dear, if you plan this on the spur of the moment or "forget to put a condom on" and take a chance since y'all think it might be fun to have a kid, just think of the sacrifice YOU have to make and life with for the rest of YOUR life.
Just a thought.
Peace.
She mentioned he has a son that they don't get to see because of problems
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