Ladies are you attracted to guys who ...

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Ladies are you attracted to guys who ...
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:27pm

Ladies are you attracted to guys who treat you like dirt?



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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 10:36am

LOL, Misty.

 

 

 

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Registered: 03-09-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 10:39am

My travels down the road were heavenly! LOL

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 10:51am
I'm guessing the question was motivated by the attraction some women have to bad boys... and the "nice guys don't get laid" thing on the flip side of that.

Personally I think that any so-called nice guy who can't get laid should start by taking a good and honest look about what it is about his own behavior that contributes to that outcome. Throwing a pity party and doing the "woe is me" thing can feel good in the short term, but doesn't do anything over the long run to lead to results that are any different.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:04am
What did you say, Opal? I was too distracted by that siggy to pay attention!!!!




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:06am

That is a whole new avenue!

I hope that all goes smoothly for you. Of course, you know we're all here if you need some moral support.

















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Registered: 03-09-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:09am
Thank you Misty.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:11am

You know, Steve, I have had a live-long attraction to "bad boys". While DH never had that edge to him (he's always been a nice guy), I've found that bad boys don't treat women like dirt any more than the nice guys do. As a matter of fact, the worst relationship I ever had was with a "nice guy".

Also, my "nice guy" DH is truly a nice guy, but just as bad boys become puppy dogs behind closed doors .... nice guys can become tigers behind those same doors, LOL.

















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:14am

I hope everything stays positive for you too. There will be rough patches, lots of emotional stuff, I'm sure, but that doesn't mean it has to turn ugly, kwim? Hopefully your DH will do his part in making the transition smooth too. Especially for the kids.

Do you have your moving arrangements all worked out yet?

















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Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:15am
I agree with pretty much all of that, Misty, especially the part about "nice guys" vs. "bad boys" and treating women with respect or not being two entirely different things.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:17am
{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}

I hope that your new journey leads you, ultimately, to a happier destination, KD.