Ladies, can you relate?
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Ladies, can you relate?
| Sat, 11-03-2007 - 7:53pm |
So, I was just thinking about how often I used to get bored during sex because my partner wouldn't spend enough time with foreplay.

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We are usually 15-20 minutes on the foreplay(which is about all I can take!), then I wish the intercourse would last longer!
I guess we kind of have the opposite problem!
I never had the not enough foreplay problem with Dh.
Our foreplay really varies from time to time. There are times that all we do is foreplay, other times that we barely have any foreplay. A lot of times, it depends on how tired we are and what position we're in when things get started. Hubby seems intent on making sure I have multiple g-spot orgasms of late, and we do tend to rush into intercourse when on that mission.
There are other times when there is so much foreplay that I have multiple Os before we get to intercourse at all.
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Well, I'm not watching the clock LOL. Our situation is similar to what Misty described. The foreplay varies, and it seems that dh and I are more in tune with each other. We seem to have gotten better at both wanting the foreplay/sex to be longer lasting or shorter and more intense. He has gotten so much better at taking time with foreplay, he realizes that he enjoys it just as much as I do. And he is able now to bring me to O with clit stimulation, and he does that first before getting his. Of course we have been married for 13 years, and it really took this year to have an honest, open discussion about things (esp. me being more articulate about what I need).
Wendy
Wendy
Well, perhaps I should clarify.
My husband and I usually do foreplay every time before we have sex, but frankly I am tired of getting him to his climax quicker. The more foreplay we have the quicker it is for him to finish when we have sex. He uses vibrators on me and yes I do get off, but I would LOVE to be able to share the pleasure with him at the same time, and stead of him saying "SORRY" 99 % of the time.
Suki,
I defiantely think I am the minority here but I tend to think "foreplay"is in my mind. I can be all revved up long before we even get to the first body contact. Dh and I often will
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