Ladies, Do you ever pretend that your...

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Ladies, Do you ever pretend that your...
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:55pm

Ladies, Do you ever pretend that your man is someone else during sex?



  • No, he is all I ever need
  • Yes I do most of the time
  • Yes ,sometimes to spice it up
  • Yes, but rarely
  • yes if we are roll playing and he knows


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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:00pm
If you do think of someone other than your mate while making love, then who? A stranger you met or noticed?..A co-worker?..A movie star? Who?
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:24pm
I voted he is all I ever need or needed. I wish he could feel the same.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:25pm
I might think of your handle every once in awhile, humpdaddy! ;)
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:36pm
Tiana, you DO make me smile... I remember you said 3rd base..That tells me you are gutsy and aggressive. Use that aggression on your hubby and Im sure you will be all he ever thinks about..=)
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:39pm
He doesn't want me that way. He wants me and everything his way. Period. If we keep going at this pace, this time next year, I'll be just a slave for him. But I'm glad I make you smile.
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:44pm
tiana, is he a control freak?..Does he make you do things you are uncomfortable with? It sounds like there may be a communication problem here..probably no communication on his part maybe?
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 7:51pm
We're in counseling over his control issues, yes. Well, right at the moment, I'm the only one continuing counseling since his work is taking him away on several biz trips from now through August. We communicate and are talking well about things, but he gets sidetracked once it comes to sex. It's like in one ear and out the other. He's a sex addict is what our counselor is now saying. (Great, she sarcastically says). I posted what happened on the Taboo board over the weekend - under the infidility thread.

Just trying to keep my chin up.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 1:38am
I voted no. If I'm going to do that, then I might as well masturbate.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 9:20am
Nope, can't say that I ever thought of anyone else while having sex with DH.

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