Ladies: do you like to guide him in?

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Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:48am
When your man is ready to penetrate you, do you prefer to guide his erection into you with your hand? If you do, is it a turnon, or just part of the process? I enjoy being guided. It feels like she is more eager or accepting, which is very erotic.

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 11:41am
I'm not a lady, LOL, but I'm married to one...does that count? :D

Her Highness (my wife) does that to me once in a while too. HOWEVER, she does it when she simply cannot wait anymore. When she wants it, SHE WANTS IT!! Whoa! Does that make it more erotic for her? Not really. She prefers what you prefer, she wants ME to want it too, so that means I would guide myself in, lol.

Also, I don't think I find it as erotic whenever she guides me. I don't mind it, but I don't get turned on more by it either. I'm incredibly patient and I know I'm gonna get in there, lol, but when she's ready, thats it!...get in there!...even if it means being guided.

That makes perfect sense what you were saying about it being more of a turn on, though. Neat post. :)

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 12:08pm
Just depends on the moment. I do like to guide though, its a turn on for both of us.
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 12:11pm

Well Mancreature, we all know how guys are with aiming, if they can't aim into the toilet while peeing, well a little guidance during sex seems appropriate.


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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 07-25-2004 - 1:14pm
During anal I guide most of the time, and vaginal I rarely guide. It's not something that adds excitement unless I/we want it to, then I slowly guide him in, teasing him the whole way ;o)

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 6:08pm
> Well Mancreature, we all know how guys are with aiming, if they can't aim into the

> toilet while peeing

yes, why is this? yuck. guys, we adore you, but try to aim better. i mean how hard can this be?!?

But guiding them in to me is sexy. Seems to me I almost always do it. That moment when his head is just touching and he's just about to push it in, with my fingers wrapped around him and perhaps one or both of us watching, is really quite electric and amazing.

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 6:53pm

Christy was


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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 7:04pm
well said. i have been in a wonderful relationship for ~3 weeks, totally considerate guy but he makes a mess. not like he's trying to, it's just the physiology or something. it's not really a stream so much as a crazy spray, like when a high pressure tank springs a leak. some of it ends up in the toilet and the rest of it ends up wherever. i'm inclined to say, please just step outside and go off my balcony or something. i am not sure the downstairs neighbors would continue to adore me. of course he could always just be like us and sit down but i don't think he'd go for that.
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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 2:09am
The most experienced airline pilots need the control tower to "guide them in"! They may know where the runway is, but since they can't see it, they need help.
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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 11:00am
Its not only "unprotected vaginal sex"that does it. Any ejactulation can result in ejactulate staying in the uerthera. The first tinkle in the morning never goes where you want it to. Sorry about that girls but he just has to learn to raise the seat.

Jim

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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 11:06am
"Prefer it?" No, not necessarily. And it's not really a turnon for me either. Not sure about my DH though. Sometimes I do guide him in, but most of the time, he finds it hands-free.

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