Ladies: do you like to guide him in?

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Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:48am
When your man is ready to penetrate you, do you prefer to guide his erection into you with your hand? If you do, is it a turnon, or just part of the process? I enjoy being guided. It feels like she is more eager or accepting, which is very erotic.
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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 12:40pm
Yes I will be guide him in - usually when I'm on top! Other positions, it's usually him guiding it in.
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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 7:44pm
Aha. So that's what it is. It's not just a matter of raising the seat, though, he points his penis at the toilet and it goes anywhere but into it for a few seconds. LOL the next thing will be to just tell him to go in the shower. (Didn't Madonna say she liked to pee on her feet in the shower for soft skin or something?) Anywhere that will not make a mess; I am a neat-nik but I can't afford to have the cleaning lady come by as often as I'd like. I believe the quality control department was asleep when they installed his urethra lol
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Registered: 07-16-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 11:02am
Ok,

I must defend my man kind here, lol. I feel that if you had the parts to pee standing up, and it was required, we wouldnt be having this discussion. It is also impossible for us to sit down and pee in the morning due to a little something called "Morning Wood". It just doesnt bend like that in the morning, lol.

I myself have tried to master the art of squat peeing, it is also a good morning excercise, lol. A simple bend at the knees so that you are closer to the bowl, and the spray is more contained in the bowl. Also, I have never had a problem with athletes foot, lol, if you know what i mean

So, Pee on men!!

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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 11:08am
Well, you can't pee until the "morning wood" goes down anyway, so why not sit when it does? Think about it....it's VERY unsanitary to spray the walls, floors and even the ceiling day after day.
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 11:40am
Morning wood is one of the things you actually can pee through. That presents another problem for guys. I just lean forward over the toilet so my body is as horizontal as I can get. Otherwise I need a rain coat.

Jim
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 2:33pm


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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 3:37pm
Maybe you can, lostguy, but my DH can't. He says it's gone down fairly sufficiently by the time he actually makes it to the toilet though. He's tried to go first thing, and he can't.
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 4:48pm
Seriously. For some idiotic reason, my bathroom is carpeted, so when he sprays it on the floor it just stays in there. I have to believe that if he decides to get the ring piercing in his penis it will be even worse. So I have this wonderful b/f who is great to make out with but a bit outta sorts in the pissing department. Go figure. And no, I don't think it's prudent to risk a male psyche's well being by insisting that he sit down to go.
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 4:53pm
my last long term bf didn't like me guiding it in. he liked it to make it's own way in -- no hands. before that i never really thought twice about it. i would generally guide it in if i was on top or if my partner poked me a couple of times to no avail. but the bf that liked no hands, thought it was more "natural" without guidance and that if it wasn't making it's way in then we weren't ready yet. it was a little odd, but a little sexy too.
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 6:40pm
Well, I think it IS "prudent" to sit down and spare the damage! LOL! I have two sons PLUS a husband, so we're talking about quite a bit of damage to 2.5 bathrooms here, not just one! LOL!

And how does sitting down to urinate "risk a man's psyche?" This never fails to make me laugh. How? In what way? That's a silly excuse since most men come to this very practical solution on their own, with age and maturity. And IF THEY have to clean up after themselves, then they decide it's well worth the compromise, I assure you! LOL!

BTW, our bathrooms USED to be carpeted as well, until we ripped it up and TILED them all!

Urine really does a number on wallpaper, too!




Edited 7/27/2004 6:48 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001