Ladies: do you like to guide him in?

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Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:48am
When your man is ready to penetrate you, do you prefer to guide his erection into you with your hand? If you do, is it a turnon, or just part of the process? I enjoy being guided. It feels like she is more eager or accepting, which is very erotic.
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 7:00pm
>>And how does sitting down to urinate "risk a man's psyche?" This never fails to make me laugh. How? In what way?<<

My DH sits quite often to pee, especially if he's tired and doesn't feel like standing. I have seen him try the leaning thing to pee when he's erect, it's just about the most hilarious thing I have ever seen lol.

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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 8:30pm

I feel for you Kat.

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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 9:47pm
What's all this about guys spraying urine every where? Are they marking their territory or something? I think it's disgusting - and I'm a guy.

Sure, once in a blue moon I'll aim wrong or the moment or two at the start will be all over the place and the spray goes in the wrong direction but that's only rarely. It's not difficult for a guy to grab it, point it and aim it. I think that it's just sloppiness and bad toilet training.

As for a 'plug' of semen and lubrication? That's just crazy. I'd go to a doctor if that was happening to me. It's just not natural! :-)

Forget trying to pee through a hard-on though. I've almost magically levitated myself horizontally in an effort to try and pee through a hard-on but it just isn't going to happen. I've got to wait until it's at least 1/2 down before anything will happen, let alone have a chance at aiming it 'down'!

Anyway; back to the original topic. She'll frequently guide it in. I find it sexy and she enjoys it too. I enjoy the feeling of her fingers around me and she enjoys the weight and firmness being guided into her. It's especially erotic if she teases both of us by rubbing the head around her vulva and the opening before she guides me in.

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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 12:00am
I don't think there's any "marking of the territory", for some reason he just pisses exceptionally hard and it's not that he's aiming wrong, it just has a mind of its own, doesn't really follow a very precise stream. There must be something slightly off there b/c as he's going, there's a huge sorta flat spot where it first comes out of his slit. I mean really odd looking, like a flat ribbon of urine that's about an inch high. Forget it, I'm too tired to describe it ...

As far as making him sit down: no way. I'm a good girlfriend and way more than I care about him peeing on my carpet, I care about him knowing he's a man. Not even gonna entertain that discussion. I'm serious, I do think male psyches are fragile. Heck, it's just a rental place anyhow ;-)

Back to the original topic. Heck yeah I guide it in. I'd like to be doing so right this second in fact. So bored tonight. B/f's away. Bleah.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 07-28-2004 - 12:09am
As for the ring, if the, (what's it called?) the pee-hole is oddly shaped enough to make the urine go everywhere, maybe having it altered slightly with the ring might actually help his aim? It'll alter the 'flow', maybe for the better.
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 12:55am
It's not a spraying problem, it's a splattering problem. All my guys are well over 6 ft. tall so the toilet is a long way away!
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 1:08am
Well, I have to wonder if he'd be as great a BF if it were YOU splattering urine all over HIS bathroom! LOL! Think he'd risk damaging YOUR psyche by asking you to adjust?

Seriously, I've learned that men's egos and emotional health are much more resilient than we give them credit for.(Hey, kind of like OURS!) But they just gain so much more allowing you to believe that they aren't, don't they? I never ask my DH or sons to do anything I wouldn't do myself. And it has nothing to do with being a good partner either. I'm a great wife and mother, or so they tell me.

And as for your rental situation, I have to say that it's that attitude that makes me cringe as a property owner! You'll still have to pay for any damage, and the repair or replacement costs, he causes to carpet/walls, etc. out of your deposit. Urinating all over isn't considered "normal wear and tear." So, whether it's your house or someone else's, it still comes out of your pocket.










Edited 7/28/2004 10:38 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 10:15am
I know some women have considered installing urinals in their bathrooms! They sell them at Home Depot, Lowe's and most home improvement stores now.
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 2:50pm
I dunno, I have never met anyone who's perfect, myself included. E.g. I'm flat-chested and don't have any hips -- much more annoying in the great scheme of things i'm sure than him inadvertently power-pissing on my carpet. Carpeted bathrooms seem really tacky to me anyhow lol.
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 4:01pm
>>I dunno, I have never met anyone who's perfect, myself included.<<

Hear! Hear!, my dear! LOL!! However, at work and abroad, I've met plenty who THINK they are though...RAOFL!! The perfect ones at work are almost ALWAYS the ones who like to themselves with the ones they feel are 'less' perfect. Just can't get away from them, LOL! Thats employees, now take on the clients...uh boy!

For instance, we MUST adhere to the needs of our clients. If they stress they want carpeted floors in their washrooms or even in their kitchen areas, then our maintenance crews MUST structure those new offices accordingly. What a shame! LOL!! Customer is always right, right? Their perfection keeps them from fully listening to the results of their decisions, so what do ya do? They're the client, they're the boss. ;)

BTW, issytish, LOL, if you're reading this, BOTH my daytime and nighttime building crews have constantly complained that the ladies rooms do NOT clean up after themselves. Ewwwww...that goes for relieving themselves AND personal...uh...well there you are. From our experience in the building care business, BOTH genders have their issues, LOL! Crimeny I need that lottery ticket!! ;D

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