Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
Find a Conversation
Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
| Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:48am |
When your man is ready to penetrate you, do you prefer to guide his erection into you with your hand? If you do, is it a turnon, or just part of the process? I enjoy being guided. It feels like she is more eager or accepting, which is very erotic.

Pages
But I'm not talking about whether someone is "perfect" or not in this thread,(you're right-who is?), it has nothing to do with that. I'm just talking about a simple solution for a common complaint among women.
I try to do my part, too....I go out of my way to clean up my hair after I blowdry because it gets all over the countertops, etc. and it really bugs my DH. Not a big deal but it bothers him so I take a few minutes and vacuum. More trouble for ME but I don't mind. No difference that I can see.
JOKE...Whats the definition of torque?..Its when a man goes into the bathroom with morning wood pushes down SO hard that his feet slip out!...lol
Thanks for speaking up for guy's sitting down. I got in the habit years ago because I get up to pee 2-4 times a night and it's a lot easier just to sit down and not worry about aim. You barely have to wake up. In public I always stand (urinals are hard to miss anyway). At home I sit about 95% of the time, so the toilet stays clean and the lid stays down. My wife loves it. You make a good point about visiting other people's homes. It's just common courtesy.
taoist
P.S. I'm not sure how this got so far off the OP. When my wife is on top, of course, she guides me in. When I'm on top, I usually do it, but sometimes she does, especially if I'm not totally erect yet.
As you said, any guy who feels his manhood is being compromised by sitting down, (who's going to know anyway?)out of consideration for his partner or hosts, etc., has a very shaky self perception anyway. It's just not that big a deal.
Edited 7/29/2004 12:03 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Pages