Ladies: do you like to guide him in?

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Ladies: do you like to guide him in?
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:48am
When your man is ready to penetrate you, do you prefer to guide his erection into you with your hand? If you do, is it a turnon, or just part of the process? I enjoy being guided. It feels like she is more eager or accepting, which is very erotic.

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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 4:10pm
He obviously finds you attractive or he wouldn't be with you, would he? Not ALL men like big boobs and hips.

But I'm not talking about whether someone is "perfect" or not in this thread,(you're right-who is?), it has nothing to do with that. I'm just talking about a simple solution for a common complaint among women.

I try to do my part, too....I go out of my way to clean up my hair after I blowdry because it gets all over the countertops, etc. and it really bugs my DH. Not a big deal but it bothers him so I take a few minutes and vacuum. More trouble for ME but I don't mind. No difference that I can see.

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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 6:36pm
Hopefully! Maybe he's just a perv and likes watching a tiny girl eagerly worship his rather big penis. J/k, I think he likes me fine. And even though it's not sexual to go to the bathroom or anything, it involves the same parts and my sixth sense just tells me you don't mess around with making guys sit down or anything -- they might hafta spend years in psychoanalysis. So: pee on as ya will, my dear new boyfriend with the elephant-sized bladder, and I'll expect you to gimme a break if i ever do something wierd .
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 10:39pm
Whatever, it's your, sorry, your landlord's carpet! But I can assure you that my DH and sons are totally MALE and completely unscarred from the psychological "trauma." LOL!
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 9:00am
Just a couple quick points from a guys point of view..The plug that forms after a night of sex can easily be removed before peeing. Sitting to pee is not unmanly, at times it shows intellect, not sitting shows immaturity, or macho BS at times.(we males do sit to poop, right?)If I were visiting a home where there were no other males , I think its only polite NOT to make a mess of her bathroom.(SIT!)I stand most of the time, but in the middle of the night I`ll sit so I dont have to turn on the light

JOKE...Whats the definition of torque?..Its when a man goes into the bathroom with morning wood pushes down SO hard that his feet slip out!...lol
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:39am
humpdaddy,

Thanks for speaking up for guy's sitting down. I got in the habit years ago because I get up to pee 2-4 times a night and it's a lot easier just to sit down and not worry about aim. You barely have to wake up. In public I always stand (urinals are hard to miss anyway). At home I sit about 95% of the time, so the toilet stays clean and the lid stays down. My wife loves it. You make a good point about visiting other people's homes. It's just common courtesy.

taoist

P.S. I'm not sure how this got so far off the OP. When my wife is on top, of course, she guides me in. When I'm on top, I usually do it, but sometimes she does, especially if I'm not totally erect yet.

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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 12:00pm
Thanks Hump....another vote for a simple solution and courtesy for others.

As you said, any guy who feels his manhood is being compromised by sitting down, (who's going to know anyway?)out of consideration for his partner or hosts, etc., has a very shaky self perception anyway. It's just not that big a deal.


Edited 7/29/2004 12:03 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 5:33pm
As long as your head doesn't hang down into the water I guess that would be ok ... i would think that'd be kinda cold! ;-) In all honesty, I just feel that I have to get to know the guy better before I tell him to sit down to relieve himself ("Dear Diary: Christy is acting really wierd lately. She wants me to ...") After all, he's 40 and has probably been standing up all his life! I'll just ask him to do a public service and pressure-wash the graffiti off sidewalks, walls and so on before he gets home!!! ... gross or not, it's just unbelievable how hard he pees. Call the Guiness Book of World Records. Roflmao ... my so-called life.
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Fri, 07-30-2004 - 5:29pm
I love doing that! Letting it find it's own way when it's nice and hard and "searching", LOL - it is a great feeling, I agree.

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