Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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| Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm |
Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.
But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!
So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?
Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?
Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)
This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.
Look forward to reading the responses.
Curiousniceguy.

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I don't discuss size with anyone either... I did post something about size and hardness on here, but only because I wouldn't discuss it with someone in person. I think that is disrespectful.
I will tell you, from my experience, size truly does not matter! It is the technique and the passion and what he can do with his tongue :)
I have never and would never share that type of information with friends or family. And neither would my DH about me.
Once again, I think men overestimate the importance of size for women. The only time it MIGHT come up in casual conversation, in regard to a past lover, etc., for some women, would be if it were extraordinarily small or large.
I don't want to know my best friend's husband's size though...nor does she mine!
Yes, typically, personal discretion is learned through mistakes and maturity.
Question for you....how would you feel if you knew that a BF, past or present, was discussing your private parts with his friends?
Discussing sex, as a general subject IS fun and fine, for the most part, as we do on this board. But casually giving away personal and PRIVATE details of a partner's anatomy, for the amusement of your friends, isn't, IMO.
I think this is why the phrase "Too Much Information" was created.
Generally speaking, the more important the relationship and person is, or was to you, the more respect and discretion you use in this type of situation.
My friends and I are very open about sex in general but very discreet when it comes to personal relationships. And being open doesn't mean that you must be indiscreet to discuss sex as a topic.
My friends and I have had conversations that would curl my mother's toes, if she had overheard them. But, we are also aware that breaking a trust can happen very innocently and spontaneously, in the course of a "harmless, fun" conversation.
We all have to set some personal boundaries when it comes to disclosing details of our personal relationships if we truly value and love our partner. If we don't, then it's a little hard to consider a person & relationship special and intimate, if everyone and their dog knows all the gory details.
After all, intimacy means that you share deeply personal and private experiences, feelings and thoughts. But if you're sharing those things with others, in a casual way, then it's not quite so intimate anymore, is it?
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