Ladies- Do your friends know his size???

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Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm

Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.

But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!

So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?

Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?

Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)

This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.

Look forward to reading the responses.

Curiousniceguy.

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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 8:54pm

Whew, I'm still trying to get through all of the replies here - but thought I'd chime in with my answers.

 

 

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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 10:04pm

Oh...we have to stop now....all I was thinking about while reading your post was the story of "Goldilocks and the Three Bears" when all throughout the story, Goldilocks repeats: "This is just too big.....and this is just too small.....but this is just right!" ;-)

"Just because you may prefer a penis on the larger size doesnt mean others do. You just may be able to handle one, where many,(legions) (lol) can not."

Where did I ever say I prefer anything?

Overall though, as you mentioned, I think that "size" is more important to men....and that's both penis and vagina size, than penis size is to women. But....wait...isn't that what we've been saying all along? I simply do not think it's fair when men have all of these preferences (even to the point where they might even ditch a perfectly fine woman), and yet when women do the same, they're shot down and accused of having a large vagina....and "issues." tee hee I mean, just look at how you mistakenly accused me of being a "size-queen" simply because I'm pointing out some discrepancies and hypocracies. ;-)




Edited 10/18/2006 10:55 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 10:17pm
when i typed muscular/celebs i meant it as mucular men or celebs. :) so she would not be seen around one since it does not fit her image
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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 8:58am

you a size queen?..lol well I do kind of remember a couple comments from the past that I think it was you that mentioned size, I could be mistaken...I do agree with you about men and size. Its never been an issue for me because I know im not tiny, but
I realise Im not huge either, nor would I want to be, but thats just me.

Your comment about the 3 bears is my wifes experience..her first was 4" and thin, her second was 9" and her 3rd was 6 1/2" She even used the term goldiecocks...lol

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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 3:05pm

funny i was banned from a site because i called out one female mods contradictions. she hated seeing men talk about female body parts yet always had a few words to say when it came to penis size. heck this is common in most message boards anyway

i used to disbelieve anyone that said they and their friends make fun of the penis size of their partners or ex-partners until i heard some co-workers do it. So any notion that women don't do it.... i mark as completely false. i've heard women talk among themselves about it and it wasn't in anyway or shape to "mock" any concept. it was just plain making fun.

this subject isn't any bigger then talking about female body parts. because this is a "womens" website this subject is big but on another website threads about fat women labia size and men’s height get just as much attention as do the penis size ones. So basically any subject that is made to make fun of others causes a stir

AGAIN men care about it because women care about it…...how many times do i have to say this here. how can a human care about something on their body if others do not show any care for it? men heard women talk about it thus care about it cause and effect!

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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 3:09pm

funny you are not the only one i as well thought she had made some comments at one time in the past ( i even ask this same question one time)

i guess i am mistaken




Edited 10/19/2006 3:16 pm ET by dr_blar
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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 4:01pm

What? You lost me on this one, blar.

"How can a human being care about something on their body if others do not show any care for it?" HUH?

Well, I don't know about you or anyone else here but I CARE and value my body parts REGARDLESS of whether others care about them or not, much less what they may THINK about them!

And I care because they are MINE and I don't allow others to determine their attractiveness or value! They're inherently valuable...to me and mine anyway.

Anyone's opinion beyond that is simply unimportant to me.

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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 7:39pm

dr_blar,

I agree that there are women that laugh about penis size. I don't think most women do, but it certainly exists far more often than I think it may be acknowldged here. I've overheard it a number of times in my lifetime, watched it happen on reality tv, watched female comedians on tv joke about it, and have even been the on the receiving end of itmyself a couple of times in the past, even though I wasn't really small. My girth was the main problem I think, making some women think of me as smallish.

Large guys never get laughed at. Never. Some may get told they are too big, but that is not the same as being laughed about. If it's such a disadvantage to be big, as much or more of a disadvantage as some here would quickly say, then why aren't big guys ever put down like small, and even average at times, are put down?

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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 8:23pm

Show me. You will not find any comments from me anywhere stating that I need nor even want a large penis. I do however, "question" people who seem very hypocritcal about it. They go on and on about their requirements with respect to a woman's body (a tight vagina, certain labia, a nice ass, firm round large breasts, etc.) and then turn around and call any woman who even mentions anything above average as being a size queen, as someone with a large vagina and someone who has "issues." That is basically what you will find if you do a search of my past posts and penis-size.

Yes, I have also have confronted those who pick on large men...as though they have "control" over their size anymore than a smaller man. It's no different than knocking a beautiful woman, just because she's beautiful--it's catty, plain and simple. That's all you'll find in my posts about penis size, Hump....nothing more...

Goldicocks? tee hee Come to think of it....she did also say: "This one is too hard.....this one is too soft....." ;-)




Edited 10/20/2006 6:31 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Thu, 10-19-2006 - 8:50pm

I found this quote from me back in May about my preference with respect to penis-size:

"As far as size goes: It really doesn't matter. Even if it was a ONS, I would still care about the man's feelings and be compassionate about his size...so whatever it is, it'll be fine with me. If I'm having sex with him, more than likely it's because he turns me on immensely....did you get the "HE" part--not his penis. I would be turned on well before I even see his penis. The fact that HIS penis(whatever it's size) is attached to THAT man, would make it my preference. I guess that I'm just open-minded about it then? A penis is mostly about HIS pleasure. I have other ways that I can get pleased."

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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