Ladies- Do your friends know his size???

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Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm

Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.

But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!

So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?

Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?

Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)

This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.

Look forward to reading the responses.

Curiousniceguy.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Thu, 10-19-2006 - 8:55pm
Hump, is Pornucopia the HBO special where the porn couple are married in real life (they met while both in the business)? I have caught bits and pieces of it, and have always wanted to see the whole thing. I'm not saying she was lying or anything, but don't you think that it would be bad for business if she said anything to the contrary? But yep, we have the words of Pam Anderson, porn stars.....who's next... (sorry I'm too tired to think of something silly)... ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Thu, 10-19-2006 - 9:36pm

Oh, I thought you were being silly. :)

I could name many reported well known size queens, several who say so themself that they are. How many know Janet Jackson is a size queen? She even used the term "size queen" about herself in an interview, when many women don't know the term. I won't go into detail, but she went into some detail, and she also said she has several size queen friends.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Thu, 10-19-2006 - 10:14pm

I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing. My response to Hump was in reference to the porn-star claiming that they have a choice in who they star with.

But, again, why are women who like large penises called size-queens, and it's implied that they have something wrong with them and that it's wrong, when the same is not applied to breasts and men's even out-and-out right obsession with them? You can't knock one, and not knock the other....that's simply hypocritical. ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 7:20am

Good question. When I use the term size queen(s) I for one don't mean it offensively. For me it's a way to clarify in two words that I'm speaking about women - who like big penises and put much importance on it. I do know what you're saying though. I've read many comments by guys (not all guys though) that obviously think negatively of size queens. Sometimes the term slut is used, though most guys don't resort to saying that. To many guys I think it boils down to a couple of reasons why many guys don't like size queens. Think about it, many guys are sensitive about their penis and there are women saying those guys aren't good enough for them in bed - that they don't measure up. So it's sort of like a slap in the face.

And this could even play a role: Guys know that they are considered to be physically more powerful than women. So when a woman says the penis a guy has is not physical enough to handle her vagina, on one level it's telling him she is the physically dominant one in bed. 'Power'is thought of in many different ways, and one of those ways applies to penis size for many guys. Take someones power from them and it's an insult.

Some guys think of it as being slutty to put importance on penis size. Yet, you're right, if those same guys prefer big breasts on a women they aren't labeled names. Keep in mind though that there are guys who don't put importance on the physical, and many of those guys will not like size queens either.

And there are some guys that think like I do and therefore are not being hypocritical, for even though I definitely have preferences I prefer the most, I don't put down size queens. I'm actually a bit intrigued by them. I suppose it's because I feel a mental connection with them, for I have a strong preference for big parts on women, Serena Williams type builds being my favorite by far.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 8:11am
Rainy, yeah, that is one of the pornicopia`s , but that isnt the one where they interview the big "stars". There are several of those shows ,but Ive seen only a couple. The gist of the show is, more and more porn is heading towards the angle of appealing more to the woman. Making the men a bit more realistic, adding somewhat of a theme to the movie, and romance.lol I havent seen many in the last few years, but the ones I have seen seem to be slanting towards more normal people. Not huge breasts or penises. Looks like the old porn star days of homely big penis guys like Rod Jeremy are pretty much over, at least in the porn "mainstream"..lol
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Fri, 10-20-2006 - 1:43pm
Great!

 

 

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:22pm
yoga, dont worry, having a baby doesnt stretch you out.
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Registered: 10-18-2006
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 2:58pm

Let's hope not!

 

 

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 3:12pm
I`m sure your husband you are more concerned about how well you two fit together emotionally, socially,economically,and lovingly, than you are about how you fit together physically......;)If necessary we will make consessions for the ones we love.(or adjustments)..lol
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Registered: 01-06-2004
Fri, 10-20-2006 - 9:07pm

Of course large or even super large don't get laughed at even though it can be considered to be the same "disadvantage" as small one and not be able to "please". the small one get treated in a different context then the large one.

if anyone wants proof of this just read the board on the very site in a thread about a small one poster either say "sorry" or express how they dumped a man because of it hardly nay advise really. on the other hand when it's a "too big" thread here come the poeters saying "you'll get use to it" and "lucky girl" or "take it slow and do this and that and you'll love it". Just look at the dr. laura forum and search for even more proof even she attends to the "too big threads" and never the opposite.

what's that about it being a guy thing? or this foolish thought that it is a male ego thing that i have never seen. I'll say it again guys care because women care

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