Ladies- Do your friends know his size???

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Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm

Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.

But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!

So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?

Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?

Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)

This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.

Look forward to reading the responses.

Curiousniceguy.

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Thu, 10-05-2006 - 6:40pm

I don't see


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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 12:14am
Honestly, I have never discussed my husband's penis size with anyone other than my husband! LOL My girlfriends and I do'nt get that graphic about our husbands... now, ex boyfriends or one nighters.. sure! We dish the dirt down to all the bumps and bulges... And I am usually very honest about their sizes... Wich range from 9inches and extremely thick to about 4 (seriously) and kind thin.... But as far as talking about my husband's member... I don't. They don't and I don't.
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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 8:56am
kat I didnt mean to say I believe in discussing details with friends, I never have about my wife..she admitted she did in generalities. She is also younger than I and works with women younger than she. I think every generation, to a point, gets bolder and more liberated. Is that a good thing? Thats not for me to decide.Other societies see sex as no big deal, while ours see it as a taboo subject, probably founded in religious beliefs.
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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 9:00am
And tish...Obviously you live by your belief system. Not a thing wrong with that. Here we share what we do in bed, what we like and what our S.O.`s like, (in detail) so it is not so far fetched to think younger people share a tad more detail...
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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 11:50am

No, I don't think it's far fetched at all to think younger people share more detail or older people.


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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 9:44pm

why?? because that is usually what the context of the discussion is..... heck even some of the posters here prove this just read the other posts. So if your friend says that the black person she is dating doesn't fit the "myth" are you guys going to laugh at him or her??

Yes the person could be a cheater but was the personality of the person ever mentioned? NO it was just that they talk about their ex-partners not their current partners so therefore they don't really respect their partners.

so you are basically saying that it's ok for Sally to talk among her friends and say that Yom (ex) has a and they giggle and do whatever pointless thing when they find out that info then they ask about sally's current partner Joe….. Sally says he is good but once sally splits up with Joe then Sally says the info and they all do pointless giggling again. So this is OK????

of course in marriage is different

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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 12:11am

Curiousniceguy, I got up to your post #47 and just had to give you my comments. I am an older guy, and I assure you that I have never shared information to other men about my wife's sex organs or her abilities in bed. I doubt that this is a generational difference between you and me, but is more a Lack of commom sensitivities.

I agree whole heartedly with Kat and Tish. Private information about my wife is never shared with others, and I know that she would NEVER devulge private information about me.

In a more humorous vein, neither my wife and I has ever had previous lovers (sexually), so she can sometimes tell me that I have never had a better lover than she, and I can tell her that she is the best that I have ever had. LOL

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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 12:14am

"why?? because that is usually what the context of the discussion is..... heck even some of the posters here prove this just read the other posts."

Come again? ;-) On this board people discuss men's penii in the negative? To degrade and mock? I've been on this board for about five years now...and nope...haven't heard a one. And in real life, do you know this to be a fact? You know that all women discuss men's penii to degrade them? My point was, is that you assume that all discussions are in that context, when that isn't the case at all.

"So if your friend says that the black person she is dating doesn't fit the "myth" are you guys going to laugh at him or her??"

I wouldn't think she was serious and might say something like.... "You mean he doesn't like to go down on you?......drop him!" or "You must be relieved..." ;-) That's the type of "play" banter that might transpire. No one wants to know any details about anybody's SO. Even if a woman mentions something vaguely about size or even mentions inches...no one would ever take it seriously....that's why they giggle.

"Yes the person could be a cheater but was the personality of the person ever mentioned? NO it was just that they talk about their ex-partners not their current partners so therefore they don't really respect their partners."

But, they are no longer their partner, so they do not feel the same "level" of "loyalty" as they do to their present partner. I didn't say it was right, just trying to explain it.

"so you are basically saying that it's ok for Sally to talk among her friends and say that Yom (ex) has a and they giggle and do whatever pointless thing when they find out that info then they ask about sally's current partner Joe….. Sally says he is good but once sally splits up with Joe then Sally says the info and they all do pointless giggling again. So this is OK????"

I never said that anything was OK; I was simply wondering why you automatically assumed that any comments would be in the negative context. I mean, you even said that women on this board are guilty of such discussions (????)..... ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 1:33pm

not all but some.... you have to be really out of the loop to think all threads/posts here were made just for "informational" purposes and don't at all contain any posters saying anything negatively

you can't be telling me that when a women says that her partner was/is small that her friends aren't going to be laughing(giggling) negatively at him and if he was large they would not be thinking that she must be having god like sex? that's how it is... small = bad and large = good this is the point that i am making....the comments are in negative context because they all link to that type of thinking. Even you proved this when you said what your friends talk about.




Edited 10/7/2006 1:35 pm ET by dr_blar
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Sun, 10-08-2006 - 12:24am

The women that have come here to "discuss" a small penis, have done it to degrade and mock their men? I'm sorry, but I just haven't seen any of that. I think that most of the posters who come here and mention a small penis, it is because they state that they cannot feel much or anything, and they are asking for alternative methods that others have tried to "enhance" sex. I will not say that there has never been any troll posts or an occasional poster who will say negative things about small penii, but that's unusual.

Incidentally, any woman in real life who would intentionally degrade or mock a man with she is with about the size of his penis, wouldn't get any laughs from me. I'd probably tell her off. ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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