Ladies- Do your friends know his size???

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Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm

Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.

But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!

So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?

Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?

Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)

This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.

Look forward to reading the responses.

Curiousniceguy.

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Sun, 10-15-2006 - 6:23pm
Oops, in my previous post I wrote "... just because 7 out of 8 women are size queens...". I meant "... just because 7 out of 8 women aren't size queens...". I accidently left the n't off.
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Sun, 10-15-2006 - 7:47pm

The "It doesn't matter." means exactly that--it is of NO importance or significance. Why? Because you do not have a choice in the matter. If you want that man, that man has what he has, whatever it is; so it will "not matter" any way you cut it. Whether or not it will enhance sex, or be a nuisance, it's not something that you can change, nor something that you simply can will away....so why would it matter? It's called flexibility. You make the BEST with what you're dealt and you make **IT** the BEST thing that ever happened to you. Even if I was with a man who had no penis (lost all of it's ability), I would still think he was and do everything in my power to make him feel as though he is the "best" thing ever to happen to me. That his size is of NO significance...

...and I wouldn't be lying.

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of the way things turn out." ~~Anonymous

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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 5:17pm
I would bet that most women who really need/want a very large penis are they themselves large "down there" That has been my experience anyways.
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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 8:47pm
That's a logical fallacy, I think....The statement: "All women with large vaginas need a large penis" may be true, but that does not make the statement: "All women who need a large penis have large vaginas" true. (There could be many reasons why many women would desire a large penis....and just because a woman can accommodate one, does not automatically mean that she herself is "large."



Edited 10/16/2006 8:48 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 9:18pm

I agree with your last post completely. Your posts of the past have often confounded me, as we are at times on opposite ends of viewpoint, and yet other times in complete agreement.

In general I believe disagreements between people can often be traced back to predominately left brain thinkers vs predominately right brain thinkers. While everyone uses both sides, most people rely more so on one side or the other. You strike me as a mostly right brain thinker (in fact, all the regulars here appear to be so), but what throws me is the way that you tap strongly into your left brain at times, more strongly than right brain thinkers usually tend to do.

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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 9:44am
If my lungs can hold more air than yours, my lungs are bigger than yours.In my experiance, size queens are "more roomy" than most.Can`t blaim them either, they are trying to work with what they were born with. Believe me , there are legions of women who can not take a long thick penis.This notion that any vagina can adapt to almost any size penis is so not true.I think it would be easier for a large vagina to adapt to a smaller penis than a smaller vagina adapting to a large penis...I always hear ,"well a baby comes out of there"..That is all hormonal. Birth hormones help a lot to allow the baby to pass, and still women can tear.Obviously no penis is as large as a babies shoulders, but I have encountered some who were pretty small. I have encountered some that were pretty large as well...Lets say a certain woman can accomodate 6" internally, what good is a nine inch penis when 3" is still outside of her? I would be more interested/worried about how girthy the guy is.
Even in porn, some of the guys are large enough that it limited which women porn stars they could work with. According to a special on HBO, todays porn star women are getting to pick who THEY will work with, and by and large they are picking ave. to slightly above ave. size men.
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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 10:59am
My first thought was maybe Federline is excellent at oral sex and Timberlake wouldn't go there. Maybe it had nothing to do with penises at all.
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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 1:16pm
Saw Federline on TV last night.
After that I believe there is probably no place that his mouth hasn't been.
once.
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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 5:07pm
Yes, he's certainly a little rough around the edges alright. But what he lacks in charm, looks, intelligence, education, money,.... maybe he makes up for in enthusiasm and willingness in bed! There has to be SOMETHING that attracts her. But then, bless her heart, she's not the sharpest knife in the drawer herself.


Edited 10/17/2006 5:09 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 7:30pm

Exactly how many women did you have sex with Hump? Sheesh...."legions of women???" I'm going to assume that many of these women were just casual fly-by-nights then....or something close to it. What you may perceive as not being as "roomy" may have just been "tension" or "not aroused enough" or "not enough lubrication" or so many other factors. As I recall, you have a "7" penis with a slightly larger than average girth (6 or 6 1/2")? Are you going to tell me that you are in the "size-queen" category? I really don't see it. ;-) And are you also going to tell me that these women told you that they were size queens? Legions of women, eh?....

With respect to hormonal changes to the vaginal canal during pregnancy,...as far as I know, it doesn't go through any changes--the cervix does though (it shortens, I believe ). The "tearing" in "most" cases is not of the vaginal walls (breech and exceptionally large babies are the exceptions) but of the perennium (the area between the vaginal opening and the anus.

"Lets say a certain woman can accomodate 6" internally, what good is a nine inch penis when 3" is still outside of her? I would be more interested/worried about how girthy the guy is."

Again, Hump, I cannot for the life of me understand why you always seem to (and I do not think you do it consciously) try and "build" up small penises by "knocking down" large ones. The fact of the matter (if you read a prior post of mine), is that we don't really have a choice. Whether a man is large, extra large, small, extra small, or average is not something we can control, so we make the best with what we've been dealt, no matter the size. I do not see the "point" in mentioning anyone's size (penis or vagina). If you care about someone, it wouldn't matter.

Science has determined the vagina to be adaptable under normal circumstances not us. Your experiences are yours, but I just do not hear many women's tales of how she just could not accommodate a 7" penis, a 9 or 10" maybe, but not a 7". I'm sure that was your experience....and it's possible that those women were shallow, but there are other factors that could have contributed as well. Not for anything, hump, but if you are in fact only ,7" you calling women "roomy" is a little presumptuous, no? I mean....how would you know how long they were? They may have just have been very aroused (therefore fully tented, have a less sensitive cervix, yes a longer than average vagina; but certainly accommodating all 7" isn't exactly "stretching" things.... ;-) ya know? If you're speaking about girth; again (and we've been through this drill a million times); so many factors could contribute to a woman feeling "roomy." Consistency and amount of lubrication is a big one; how aroused she is; what state of arousal; not aroused; and so on and so on. If these were women you didn't have relationships with, there's a good chance that you believed that they were into it; aroused, and all, but that may have not have been the case at all. Anyhow.... (phew, this is long... ;-))

...my last thought. About these female porn stars having a "choice" of partners....I would think that so many women are trying to get into porn these days (like many strippers) that I find it hard to believe that the producers wouldn't just say "next!" to anyone who didn't like having sex on screen with Mr. Bighead. And who is to say that the porn stars are choosing who to have sex with because of the size of their penises? It may just be that they "prefer" one over the other for completely unrelated reasons--looks maybe? Perhaps she actually finds one attractive and figures out that if she actually enjoys having sex with the man, her realism may sell! tee hee Of course, many of them do have to have anal sex also, so there you could be right. ;-)

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