Ladies- Do your friends know his size???
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| Thu, 09-21-2006 - 6:21pm |
Hi Everyone.. Ok before you start replying that this is just another post about penis size... well ok it is but in a different way.. we all know many (if not most) of us guys are size focused much to the confusion or amusement of you ladies.
But we also know that when the girls get together, more info and juicy detail gets discussed than you might otherwise lead on. Other boards here would confirm that one!
So my question is.. When talking with your girlfriends, Do you ladies talk or tell each other about your man's size, whether positively or negatively. Or in more of a general way, have you talked about the notable ones in your past you miss or ones that you just encountered?
Then the follow-up question is that have you ever increased the size more than it really was for the fun of the story?
Basically.. I want an inside view into how much the girl talk really involves size discussion (even if you would make the claim that Size doesn't matter to you!!)
This is open to all you ladies, younger or older, married or single. It doesn't have to be a recent discussion.. just any type of this discussion in your experience.
Look forward to reading the responses.
Curiousniceguy.

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In this case though the odds appear good it was about penises and not about oral. Reason being:
1) She made fun of a small penis, saying Timberlake has a worm.
2) Federline has a bigger than average flaccid in a jump pants photos.
3) She likes to grab Federline's groin in public while kissing on him.
4) She said Federline is 10 times better in bed.
5) On her reality tv show she said that intercourse with Federline was "Ecstasy < pause>, ecstasy , ecstacy , ecstasy" Her pause was of a few seconds each time, as if to simulate the way she felt upon complete penetration. Why else pause like that?
Granted, any one of the comments alone, or even added to another comment, might not mean much. But when all the available dots are connected there is good reason to think it is about penis with her. It may not be, but it's a good bet it is.
I don't find him to be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but neither is she.
Rainy, On HBO they had a special called"Pornicopia"..They were interviewing some of the most popular women porn stars...It is now the women who call the shots of who they will "perform" with...Its the women who make the really big money now, and according to them it is they who get to pick who they will work with...according to them, it is no longer just about the big penis, its about beautiful bodies. They did make the comment that they did not have to work with the large penises anymore.(and they were glad of it).
Rainy, at my age I know the difference between a vagina that is not aroused and one that is just on the smaller size. When I mentioned legions, I didnt mean I had been with legions, but I have been with my share. By the way when there is a tear during childbirth, the bottom of the vigina INTO the perennium can tear.(hopefully the doctor snips before it tears).
You have my size correct. Saying that, I have been to long for some(had to be careful not to go too deep) and also too girthy for a couple.(even with lube it was uncomfortable for both)I have no problem with guys who are really long or really girthy, they are what they are. My whole point is , I have been told by at least 4 "size queens" that even at my above ave size in both length and girth, I was nowhere near what they needed size wise. They did enjoy themselves, but they wanted to be "filled" up and I wasnt up to the size they desired.These women were roomy."Even with above ave girth we barely made good friction(even for me) and I did not hit bottom.
I wont deny that there may be ave size women who desire a really long penis, but I still wonder if she can not accommodate the whole thing, then what is left on the outside is "waisted"?..lol
I have talked to enough women , have read what women here have said about large penises etc to form the opinion that if a certain large penis makes one woman feel pain (too girthy, too long etc) and the second woman can handle it no problem, the second woman is probably deeper and wider than the first woman. That is not a bad thing either way, they are what they are. I guess I cant accept the notion that a smaller woman who would have pain with a larger penis would still be classified as a size queen.(unless she really enjoys the pain) and that would be the exception not the rule.
If one looks at it from the male perspective, We (men) would prefer a tighter fit than a losser one (talking strikly sex here, not relationships)I would think women would feel the same way.I have experianced both . Way too big for my liking, and so small that it was uncomfortable.
Just because you may prefer a penis on the larger size doesnt mean others do. You just may be able to handle one, where many,(legions) (lol) can not.
A woman who is filled up enough with my size MAY be uncomfortable with anything larger, probably due to her size.My wife for one is one who has experianced long, and she disliked the feeling
And there's also good reason to believe it's all about revenge, too.
Bad public breakup. Disclosure that she did NOT wait to be married before having sex...despite her public proclamations that she did.
And his singing about her cheating on his 1st very successful CD after the breakup.
He's been much more successful than she has, so there is some professional jealousy involved, I'm sure.
Bottom line, she's a very immature young woman and she knows that making public comments about his size will hurt his ego and public persona. That's the whole goal. Doesn't mean the comments are true OR that she really feels that way.
Edited 10/18/2006 11:22 am ET by katmandoo2001
Found my lady 45 years ago and can verify this as being true in her case.
just speaking for myself, I really didn`t enjoy the sex as much when I couldnt just let lose and go at it at whatever speed that we wanted to go at. When a guy has to be careful about thrusting too deep, it does take away from the experiance somewhat if the required thrusting at a particular time is hard, deep, and fast. Obviously not all love making is hard deep and fast, but there are times when it is. On the other hand being with a woman where it is similar to throwing a hot dog down a hall way isnt all that great either. Yes there are things that can be done by varying how she holds her thighs, the position etc. to make up for ill fitting parts. That is the challange that some couples face. I`ve always said it isnt about sizes, its about fit. Where it comes to sex and genitals, not always does "one size fits all".....lol...Its no secret that a large vagina would probably fit better with a larger penis,and a smaller penis may fit better with a smaller vagina. I`m also aware there are variations of each of those themes.
I talked about being with a few women who were too big for my tastes, and some who were too small, but the majority were more than likely about average size, as I myself, am around average size, so most of the time the fit was close to perfect.
Many women say size doesnt matter, some say it does....If you ask a man his preference, most men are pretty specific. They would prefer a size that causes friction.In other words, one he fits well with. Ofcourse if the woman he loves isnt all that great of a fit, it may not matter so much, or they adjust.
By the way, I only used the exampless I used as a response to an earlier statement about Britney liking Federlines big penis and making fun of justin timberlakes 'reportedly" smaller penis..My point was maybe Britney is aa size queen and Camron isnt.
Never said they didn't though. But my DH doesn't and neither do many other men. It's not a given that they will discuss a former or present partner either.
And besides, men know to take their friend's "war stories" with a grain of salt anyway. They know that only about half of what they hear is true.
Edited 10/18/2006 5:55 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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