Ladies, have you ever

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Ladies, have you ever
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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 8:04pm

I am just wondering, ladies, have you ever been flashed by a guy while in a public place? How was it done, where were you, did you enjoy it, if you were flashed by a guy in public would you acknowledge to him what you saw? Have you ever wished more guys would flash us girls? Could it be a guy's clothing makes it much more difficult for him to flash us girls?

Here, I am referring to women being flashed in a public place, not private parties or when amongst friends in private. I have most likely had 15 times as many girls flash me in public as guys, how about you?




Edited 8/10/2007 10:27 am ET by lindaj84
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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 8:26pm
I suspect it has more to do with a guy's much greater chance of being arrested if he does something like that and it's unwelcome. That said, I was once in a car with DW and her mother, driving through DW's hometown, when we happened to see a guy standing in a doorway masturbating. DW and MIL both commented on it, and not in a positive way.

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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 8:43pm

I don't think there's an easy way for a guy to flash people. I also think they would have to do it in the right setting, and I can't think of too many of those.

I know when I was in college, I had a friend that always went commando. He had a hole selectively placed in his pants, and sometimes it was very revealing. I think they can get away with things like that easier than out and out flashing.



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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 9:33pm

Yes, I've seen both men and women flash. Up here during bike week over in Laconia. It doesn't happen as frequently as it used to years ago, but every now and then someone does it. It's toned down over time...

Also, went to the Harley Rendevous out in Mariaville, NY a few years in a row and there was lots and lots of it happening... Oh, those were the good old days...



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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 9:50pm

That turns you on?

I am certainly not a prude but I think that is uncalled for !
It happened to a friend of mine…I think that’s the only way he thought he could impress someone…What a complete moron in my books; any man with a brain would know that most woman would prefer to be surprised with what comes out of their mouths rather than their jocks! In this case…first impressions do not count for me……

Would I enjoy it and would I acknowledge it?…..LOL
If it happened to me in a public place and I was alone…I’d feel threatened not aroused or flattered…I certainly wouldn’t acknowledge I saw…I’d be more inclined to dial 911...
Imagine what our world would be if everyone had free realm in public to expose themselves and suggest (visual or otherwise) sexual innuendos…

I certainly do question where one draws the line on sexual experience/arousal and strangers…does anything go?

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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 10:26pm

HAHA! Last year while I was in Cancun with some of my friends, some guy had dropped trou right in front of us outside. We were talking about it in the elevator with two guys who happened to be there. Well the guys got off on their floor, then one turned around and opened his towel to reveal that he was wearing NOTHING under it. He did a little hip roll and everything, then the doors shut and we almost died laughing. So I've been flashed twice within a few minutes and I can't say that I really enjoyed it other than for amusement.

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Thu, 08-09-2007 - 10:58pm

I agree with that! I'd be upset if some one just flashed me in public like that.
Even more so if i had my children with me! It shows no respect. It's different
when you know the person and your expecting it or want a peek in my opinion.

Kareese

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Fri, 08-10-2007 - 12:02am

I agree! There are probably people who thought Brittany Spears' "show" was cute......I think it was disgusting!

When I was 12 or 13, a girlfriend and I saw a man in a doorway masturbating, and we went right to the police and reported him.

I wonder what's going on with the younger generation.....the "fall of Rome" maybe?

There's a time and place for everything....I can't think of a time or place for that!

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Fri, 08-10-2007 - 9:46am

I was once flashed in th NYC subway. It was pretty sick actually. Crowded platform and guy standing in the middle waiting for teh train to close the doors and he opens his fly and lets himslef out. He was pretty skivvy and no one seemed to care much. Hope he got what he expected from it or at least arrested.


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Fri, 08-10-2007 - 12:58pm
guys do flash girls, but not as often as i'd like. you see our packages are different. girls can flash their boobs, or ass because they basically are erect, follow me. now guys dont flash their fronts often because no guys want to be known ad limp d****. but one night about a week ago i was walking out of a pizza parlor when i saw these guys sitting on the hood of a trunk. one tried to holla but i wasn't feeling, then he spurred a some mean words. my rebuttal was baby, i need a real man. and his rebuttal was pulling down his pants and releasing a baby midget. i was pleased, but oh sop surprised.
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Sat, 08-11-2007 - 1:07pm
I work in highway construction. I have been flashed on multiple times by women over the years including having a woman drive by several times within minutes completely nude and never got upset. Two gay women partially dressed and feeling each other up drove by more than once a day for about two weeks on one project and everybody just looked forward to seeing their pickup coming down the road. Heaven forbid if a man had done something like that. At one project, a high school age girl in a bikini stood maybe 20 ft. from the road washing a car repeated in a tiny bikini showing off completely for about an hour. The next day she did it again and her boyfriend came out and took off her top. A guy doing something like that would have been in jail. About a year ago, a local high school girls softball team drove through the work area and there was a nice set of tiny breasts sticking out of a window in the middle of the bus. She did not even look like she was more than 14 or 15. Also worked next to an area where a woman on a tractor in the field next to us was doing work completely naked (before cabs were common). I have many more instances of things like that including working near a church college where the girls would come out and sun naked in lawn chairs under the bridge being worked on. One even had sex doggy style with a guy while she was bent over the trunk of the car 10 to 15 feet from 4 of us working there. As I stated, if that had been men they would have been in jail.