Ladies, How do you feel about the dog...
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| Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:39pm |
Ladies, How do you feel about the doggie position?!?!
- Love it
- Like it
- It's ok
- Once in a blue moon
- Hate it
- Other, I'll explain
You will be able to change your vote.


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That poll was
I love it, and I read Tish's answer to you before posting, so she said many of the things I was going to say about it.
No, wrong, to say that "When a guy does doggie, he still gets total stimulation from IC whereas a woman does not." If you are speaking for yourself, that is valid. But you cannot speak in general terms using all inclusive sweeping statements to sum up the lives of all guys and women. I'm only saying this because there have been several threads where I've read your statements that are worded this way, and then the rest of us chime in with what is valid to our experiences and our lives, regardless of generation and experience. It then turns into a back and forth where you feel the need to justify your statement. No-one here wants to put you in a position where you feel that, I don't believe, but if you don't mind a gentle hint from a woman who has been around the world and these boards for a long time, use words that indicate you are talking about your own experience and preferences. If you are then jumped on by anyone for your preferences, when they are stated as personal things, I think you'll find most of us come rushing to your defence, even if we do NOT experience things as you do. Does that make any sense?
No, you're not a different species, you are yourself, with your own morphology, experience, upbringing, expectations etc, etc, etc... It's entirely possible, too, that with time and changes in your life and expectations of sex, your relationship and further exploration of both your own body and that of your boyfriend, you will one day discover the wonderful world of being penetrated from behind. Because believe me, it is wonderful. He has access not only to my genitals but to my ass, the area around my tailbone, my back and shoulders, neck, etc. All of them are very erogenous, and I can orgasm from anal stimulation, butt stimulation, biting on the neck and many other variations.
This is just another reason why it isn't just the penetration involved in doggie that makes it so hot, although there is that on its own, but it allows for finding the myriad erogenous zoines that are often neglected.
Explore, read, experiment, either on your own to find out about yourself, or with your BF.
Galileo Galilei
Magenta Starr – would you join me for tea?
Hmmm, asking me "how do you enjoy doggie" is a bit like asking me how I love my DH. My first reaction is to say "LET ME COUNT THE WAYS", LOL.
We have 2 favorite positions that we use 99% of the time when we have sex. Doggie is one of them, and it's our absolute favorite position for a quickie. Unlike many others, it is not my preferred position for g-spot stimulation. I'll add that it's been a favorite position of mine since I can remember, and at least in our relationship, it's me who made more requests for it than DH did -- especially when it was both of us on our knees on the bed. Over the years, we have gotten much more creative with the position, and now we both request it about the same amount of the time.
My favorite things about doggie position are the deep penetration and the intensity of the thrusting. Our favorite way to do doggie is with me on my knees on the edge of the bed, my upper body lowered (often until my shoulders are actually on the mattress) and DH standing next to the bed. It's a position that both of us are able to remain in for some time without putting a lot of strain on our bodies. Sometimes I use pillows to rest my upper body on. DH can thrust hard and fast for a long time while standing on the edge of the bed without getting tired knees (that's something that happens when you get older, lol). I love the way it feels, and I love having Os from just the deep penetration.
I also love when he holds my hips and sort of uses both of our bodies for thrusting. He gives me a slap every now and then, which is very exciting. Sometimes I do the moving instead of him, and I love (love, love, love) the dirty talk that generates from him. I love the feeling of his balls hitting my clit. I love that we can make slight changes and get a whole new feeling. Sometimes that's by me having my legs wider or closer together, sometimes it's when he's holding my ankles and having my feet slap against his butt, sometimes it's because he has his knees slightly bent, sometimes it's because my upper body is lower or higher. Sometimes either of us use our fingers to stimulate my clit, sometimes we use a toy to stimulate my clit. Sometimes (more recently) there's a bit of anal play added in.
Then there's doggie position when we are both on our knees on the bed .... or I'm wearing heels and standing or bending over ... or when we're not on our knees on the bed, but rather lying flat with him on top of me.
It's definitely the most visually stimulating position. When using mirrors, you get to see so much more of the action in this position, and I think it's much more attractive to watch "us" have sex in this position. DH is always visually stimulated in this position and especially loves to watch me grab onto the sheets. He loves when I look over my shoulder and talk dirty to him. He loves when I meet his thrusts and ask for more, LOL. I really could go on and on, but I'll close this thought by saying that DH often teases me when he's behind me. Makes me wait before he enters me ..... I can't think of any times that I'm more into begging than those :-D
I'm not sure what poll you're referring to, but positions and styles of female orgasms differ. While some positions might lend themselves to better clitoral stimulation or better g-spot stimulation, there would be different polls for people to choose their preferred type of orgasm (ie., clitoral, g-spot, penetration, etc.) and positions to orgasm in (ie., missionary, doggie, WOT, etc.) With doggie, you can have it all ;-)
As far as the variations on missionary, like feet on shoulders or thighs, they do feel good, but they are more physically demanding on both partners. At 19, that might not be a problem, but as you age, your body changes. Also, when I think back to being younger, sex didn't last as long as it does now. Younger guys might be able to recover easier after ejaculation for more rounds, but they usually don't have the control to have penetrative sex for long periods of time prior to ejaculating. From what I've gathered here, that gets easier with age for most men -- it certainly has for my guy. It's not uncommon for us to have penetrative sex for at least an hour at a time, with only short breaks to catch our breath between changing positions. If we're doing missionary positions, our bodies complain if we try to hold those poses for more than 5 minutes or so.
ETA: I also think this is the best position to fantasize in. Your mind can wander wherever you like and your partner can't see into your soul while your away, LOL.Edited 5/28/2008 3:28 pm ET by cl-misty_mae
I constantly orgasm during my sleep and wake up just enough to feel it.
You defnately make it sound hot.
Southerngl, if that's the way you're wired then that's the way you're wired, and doggy may not be a good position for you -- and as Magenta points out, if you'd posted it as your personal experience in the first place then we would never have had a problem. When you instead posted a sweeping generalization that doggy is "a favor you do for the guy", I felt the need to correct that, based on both my own experience and everything I've read here on the boards, for the benefit of anyone else who might be reading the thread -- and then I really got my back up when you further replied to "clear a few things up for me". I just didn't need anything "cleared up for me", about a position I've been having sex in since before you were born, by someone who at the time claimed not to have done it, KWIM?
Along the same lines, for me WOT is a "favor that I do for her".
Why? Well... I like it when i can feel him rubbing wetness just below my vagina, when he puts his hands on my butt and caresses it, or braces himself for support. oi... I haven't had sex in two months! I won't see him for another few weeks. argh!!
Just a reminder for everyone -- if you don't enjoy reading the posts of any particular member, you can choose to "ignore" that member. You can find a link to do this automatically under the member avatar, and if you choose to do so, you won't even see the posts from that particular member.
Many of us have differing opinions and experiences. It's okay to discuss your opinions and your experiences, but it isn't okay to disrupt a thread or attack another member with your comments. Both of those are against the iVillage Terms of Service (TOS) and can result in your post being removed and/or your account being placed in jeopardy.
Personally, I hate when posts get deleted. That in itself causes disruption to the thread, IMO. I think this has been a lively conversation that many members will find interesting, and would appreciate it if everyone makes sure they keep their posts within the TOS.
Thanks!
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