ladies i have a question for you

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Registered: 11-22-2007
ladies i have a question for you
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Fri, 11-23-2007 - 6:36pm
lol now try not to laugh to hard. the reason why i am directing this question because you (ladies)know what it feels like. when i go down on my girlfriend i get the feeling that im not doing something right. she says she has a ultra sensitive clit. like i cant even lick it when i go down on her. she says that it hurts her to bad. so then i just start licking all inside. then she wants me to start using my fingers while i go down on her. so am i doing something wrong or what. and this is my second sexual partner, so im not that really experienced in that field. so help me if you can.
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 6:55pm
Every woman is different, so what you really need to learn is how your GF likes to have oral performed on her — and she's the only one who can really help you with that. If her clit is extra sensitive, you can try licking the area around the clit without actually touching it. If she's comfortable with this, you can ask her to masturbate for you while you watch, and pay attention to how she pleases herself with her own fingers, then try and replicate that technique with your tongue.







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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 7:04pm

It is different for each woman. Some like a flat soft tongue, others like the tongue to be more pointy and hard, some like a combination of several sensations. It's not uncommon to include finger play while performing oral. They can go inside, or help to stimulate the outside.

Since she appears to be very sensitive, you may want to concentrate around her clit and wait until she's very stimulated before moving onto her clit. Also, the base of the clitoris is usually a little less sensitive than the top of it. If you make long strokes with your tongue from the base upward, she may find that she enjoys that.





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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 8:28pm

As Steve and Misty said, follow her guide.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 9:24pm

The best thing is to ask her, like the others have already said.