Ladies.. Please confirm....

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Registered: 06-10-2005
Ladies.. Please confirm....
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Fri, 06-10-2005 - 7:52am

Is a 6 inch penis good enough to satisfy women?? I know the usual boat and motion of the ocean explanations.. But while talking to some girlfriends of mine it seems there has to be a certain size to have a really great sex. Your openions pleas..!! Oh and any men out there your openions are appreciated as well.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 06-10-2005 - 8:17am

Check out the archives, there are over 400 posts on penis size.


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Registered: 05-01-2003
Fri, 06-10-2005 - 10:12am
I agree with Tish. It is a man's ability to wield and a woman's capacity to actively respond and give back that makes for good sex. Elaine
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Fri, 06-10-2005 - 11:29am

That depends on the woman. IF she is one who demands an enormous member, then she probably won't be satisfied with average. But IF the relationship is about more than just sex, then she should be more than satisfied.

But your penis is less a factor in the average woman's satisfaction, than your over all ability to make love, utilizing ALL the tools available to you. Most women greatly appreciate and enjoy oral and manual stimulation and typically, without THOSE aspects of making love, won't be satisfied.

A woman's clitoris, on the outside of her body, is the female sexual organ, not the vagina. And the clitoris has twice the amount of nerves as a penis, so if more time and effort is spent stimulating THAT organ, than you'll have a satisfied partner.

But preconceived ideas, assumptions and expectations can affect enjoyment, for both sexes, and that's where understanding, communication and being willing to compromise comes in.

No one is perfect, though, so if a woman is looking for flaws or shortcomings, she will always be able to find them.

So, really, the size of your erection is less important, to most women, than your desire to please and your willingness to do what it takes to give her pleasure.




Edited 6/10/2005 2:30 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Fri, 06-10-2005 - 2:08pm

I'll confirm THIS! Six inches is "average".

I'll also confirm THIS! Most women aren't "satisfied" by a penis, no matter what the size. It's clitoral stimulation that "satisfies" most women, and you don't have to have ANY penis to do that just fingers and a tongue.

There ARE women who say they must have a huge penis to be satisfied. Don't get involved with one of them.

If you find a woman who cares about you, she won't care what size your penis is.

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Registered: 07-14-2004
Fri, 06-10-2005 - 3:04pm

I think a little bigger (~8 and a bit thicker) is better. I mean too big just isn't comfortable, I like a bit bigger.

Like I heard someone (maybe it was on here) write recently -- if size doesn't matter, why do all the position books say "This one allows for deeper penetration". I mean, it must be good right?

The first time I was with my BF (the biggest of the 4 guys Ive been with) it was incredible. The first time it slid in the feeling of fullness was just undescribable.

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Fri, 06-10-2005 - 4:14pm

"...why do all the position books say "This one allows for deeper penetration."

Well, because it's well known that MEN enjoy deep penetration when thrusting and yes, women enjoy it, too. And it also facilitates conception to penetrate deeply.

But "deeper" doesn't necessarily mean hitting the cervix or bottoming out either. That's not a pleasurable sensation I try to achieve.

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Registered: 05-11-2005
Fri, 06-10-2005 - 9:09pm

That's about the size of my dh and we have NO problems.

Sassy.......
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 06-11-2005 - 5:20am

6 inches is about average. So whether you like it or not, you're in the same basket as the vast majority of men when it comes to penis size.

Is it big enough? Look at it from the other point of view; Are 36C breasts big enough to satisfy a man?

The answer? Yes. Most men will be more than happy with breasts that big. Some do prefer bigger breasts, a few men might even demand larger breasts, and there are even some guys that really like smaller breasts. But does it make a lot of difference if the man really loves the woman? No, the size of her breasts won't be such a big deal.

It's the same with penis size. Some women like larger, but the vast majority are very happy with a skillful 6" penis. If they really love you, its even less of an issue.

Stop worrying about it.

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Registered: 06-10-2005
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 11:04am
Thanks westridge2001 and all the other who replied earlier. It was great help and a real
confidence booster. Great messageboard!!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 11:57am

Hey scorpion.

Its totally dependant on woman you're with. Some will certainly say its too darn big while others say its not enough. Some will say know how to use it while, believe it or not, some will simply say fill 'er up.

IN FACT, what I've learned throughout the years is that it ALSO may depend on what the woman is actually in the mood for as well. Mrs. Para for example may want something romantic one day and then pretty fierce the next day...so keep that in mind too.

Can't base this on an average IMO, its going to be more up to the individual woman and how well you meet her unique needs. :)

 

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