Ladies: Preference question.

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Ladies: Preference question.
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Thu, 03-08-2007 - 10:48pm

Ladies, which do you prefer to give to your partner, a BJ or a handjob...and why?

Greg

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Fri, 03-09-2007 - 1:01pm

Well, hmmmmm DH doesn't 'say' a lot of things either. I don't think it's a time when he can 'muster' many words either. It's his facial expressions, body language and moans that make it clear he's having the time of his life. He also holds my long hair out of the way so he can see what's going on (men are usually very visual) and that's helpful as well.

And never forget that important 'it's better to give than receive' idea...do that often (and well!) and perhaps DW will understand how appreciative you are from that aspect as well.

DH also tells me (out of bed) how much he enjoys what I do.











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Fri, 03-09-2007 - 4:19pm

I was just curious because I never heard of anyone referring to oral sex as seeming juvenile before.


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Fri, 03-09-2007 - 9:18pm

My perference is to give a blow job...it's more fun, tastes better, and I just like doing it. It can be fun to give a handjob sometimes and get him off that way, but I find blow jobs very sexy and fun to do.

Lauren

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 9:28pm
I would rather give my husband a BJ...I have never given him a handjob...I guess because it doesn't seem like it would feel very good...lol
plus a BJ is sexier
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 9:30pm
Ecactly what I was thinking issytish!!!
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Fri, 03-09-2007 - 9:48pm
At the risk of sounding sarcastic, do you also think that cunnilingus is 'juvenile'?
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Registered: 03-09-2007
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 10:47pm
A BJ but for some reason my BF of almost 8 years has never gotten off from it... I must be bad at it but there was a guy I was seeing inbetween and I could get him off in less than 2 minutes... it confuses me !
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 7:42am

It doesn't mean you're bad at it.


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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 11:20am
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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 11:50pm
I've got a question. Why is it that when a woman gives a man a handjob it's considered odd or unusual or weird or gross or juvenile, but when a man gives a handjob to a woman it's considered foreplay?