ladies, satisfied with just oral?
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ladies, satisfied with just oral?
| Tue, 05-29-2007 - 7:22am |
It seems many women don't have an orgasm during IC. Is getting off by hand or oral enough for you or do you need to feel him inside you? I usually get my wife off by oral and since she won't do oral on me (dang it!) I get mine through IC. I wonder, since she has already came, is it anti-climatic for her? She has never said it was, but she wouldn't say.

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I love oral but I love intercourse just as much.
Many women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone....that doesn't mean they don't like intercourse. Some women don't have orgasms at ALL....and that doesn't mean they don't like sex! Women are built differently than men. Women get pleasure from the intimacy and having orgasms is a bonus, not a necessity, as it is for men. I'm speaking in generalities here, but a woman who truly enjoys sex enjoys it all.
I'm sorry your wife won't reciprocate orally.....she's missing a lot of pleasure there, too....but to each his own. I can't imagine having a man give me oral and me not reciprocating......because giving is just as good as getting if you have the right attitude.
I'm part of the fortunate few that O's thru IC, and have never O'ed via an OS approach. If I had to depend on OS for orgasms than I'd be left high and dry. OS just get me ready for our main event, that's all.
I agree with you Misty. I don't think it's anticlimactic to have I/C after any other activity that may have brought you to a release of some sort. Part of the experience, I think, is the pleasure you give to your partner. I also think that if you are unselfish and not focused on your own experience...ultimately you will enjoy better sex as a whole.
As for my own personal tastes...I have always preferred to finish with I/C. I feel closest to my partner in that position
Mrs P
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When I orgasm for oral or by his hand I want him to have IC with me. It feels really good when he does and I can't stand it when we don't have IC after I orgasm. It's a need for me I have to have IC.
Angela
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