ladies, satisfied with just oral?

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Registered: 05-14-2006
ladies, satisfied with just oral?
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Tue, 05-29-2007 - 7:22am
It seems many women don't have an orgasm during IC. Is getting off by hand or oral enough for you or do you need to feel him inside you? I usually get my wife off by oral and since she won't do oral on me (dang it!) I get mine through IC. I wonder, since she has already came, is it anti-climatic for her? She has never said it was, but she wouldn't say.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 7:53am
Most women still enjoy the sensations and pleasures that they feel. I suppose it also depends on how she feels about sex in general. For me, it's very important that I feel my partner is satisfied too -- it's a huge turn on to see him enjoying himself. Definitely not anti-climatic in any way.


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Tue, 05-29-2007 - 11:42am

I love oral but I love intercourse just as much.

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Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:01pm

Many women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone....that doesn't mean they don't like intercourse. Some women don't have orgasms at ALL....and that doesn't mean they don't like sex! Women are built differently than men. Women get pleasure from the intimacy and having orgasms is a bonus, not a necessity, as it is for men. I'm speaking in generalities here, but a woman who truly enjoys sex enjoys it all.

I'm sorry your wife won't reciprocate orally.....she's missing a lot of pleasure there, too....but to each his own. I can't imagine having a man give me oral and me not reciprocating......because giving is just as good as getting if you have the right attitude.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 4:54pm

I'm part of the fortunate few that O's thru IC, and have never O'ed via an OS approach. If I had to depend on OS for orgasms than I'd be left high and dry. OS just get me ready for our main event, that's all.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 6:14pm

I agree with you Misty. I don't think it's anticlimactic to have I/C after any other activity that may have brought you to a release of some sort. Part of the experience, I think, is the pleasure you give to your partner. I also think that if you are unselfish and not focused on your own experience...ultimately you will enjoy better sex as a whole.


As for my own personal tastes...I have always preferred to finish with I/C. I feel closest to my partner in that position

Mrs P

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Registered: 05-29-2007
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 8:43pm
For me personally - oral sex from my husband is amazing! I am completely satisfied with oral sex. And although I don't orgasim during IC, I get excited when he does.
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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 5:17am
DW orgasms all different ways. Our favorite sequence is for me to go down on her and she cums. Then we kiss deeply sharing her juices with her as I put my penis in her. She cums again when I cum. Fun.
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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 5:46am
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Wed, 05-30-2007 - 6:14am
I guess I maybe one of the unusual ones. I can orgasm with IC and pretty easily and multiple times depending on the postion. I find that when my dh give me oral it is the LEAST easy way for me to cum unless I have a dildo or dh's fingers in me. I love the feeling of fullness BUT I can also orgasm while giving my dh a BJ with no other stimulation and I did have an orgasm during anal with no other stimulation. Go figure!



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Registered: 05-20-2007
Wed, 05-30-2007 - 10:59am

When I orgasm for oral or by his hand I want him to have IC with me. It feels really good when he does and I can't stand it when we don't have IC after I orgasm. It's a need for me I have to have IC.

Angela

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