Ladies, what do YOU think attracts me...

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Ladies, what do YOU think attracts me...
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Thu, 11-18-2004 - 6:22pm

Ladies, what do YOU think attracts men ?



  • Men pay more attention to an attractive figure than anything else.
  • Men in general look at attitude before anything else.
  • LOL!!! Its the money, stupid! :D
  • Hair style subconsiously attracts them more than realized.
  • My posture. Posture tells them everything they want to know.
  • Attire; that first impression shows them either conflict or compatibility.
  • My career and goals by what I've noticed.
  • What I like and dislike. That says it all about me.
  • My sexual experience and/or willingness.
  • Other.


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Registered: 10-18-2003
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 6:53pm

I think it's the whole package ... I think some of those things mentioned are what initially gets a guy's attention, but that what keeps his attention is often something else. The things he might find attractive initially are often not what he finds attractive later, because the later things aren't obvious when meeting.



Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:04pm

I'm going with *attitude*.


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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:10pm

Sssssssssssakes! You ARE good! LOL! I just NEVER thought of it that way. That is so weird too!

I always notice those things about employees and clients, yet I never thought about that when it comes to a man's attraction to a woman. Good catch! ;)

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Mr. Para

 

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:15pm

Say, have I seen you on the Happily Married board from time to time? ;)

What you said makes sense. Its always going to be a mixture because of exactly what you said. I guess the question was geared more toward what 'first' attracts a man 'the most' of all.

c ya around

:)

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Mr. Para

 

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Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:24pm
Nope .. is there a Happily Divorced board? rofl


Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 8:36pm

Initial attraction? When he sees her for the first time, he's probably going to notice a combination of grooming and body language. I think a confident smile will also go a long way. I don't think it matters if she's carrying a few lbs extra, as long as she does the best she can with what she's got.

Regarding her attitudes etc...well that's kinda hard to say if we're talking the "first" thing that attracts a man. I think that you hook a man with the above, and then reel him in with your attitudes and beliefs.

However, I think that this is all too open to changing with different scenarios. It all depends on whether or not you've met before. And things like venue, alcohol consumption and who you may be out with at the time could also change the answer. If the venue is noisy, then conversation isn't going to be a clincher is it.

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