Ladies when did you hit your sexual peak
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Ladies when did you hit your sexual peak
| Thu, 06-16-2005 - 6:42pm |
I'm wondering if I'm entering into my sexual peak phase of life. I'll be 33 soon, my dh and I have recently decided that we are finished having children (we have a 4 yr old and two year old, plus we both have children from previous relationships), I'm getting sterilized later this month. My libido was pretty much non existant from the time I got pg with our first (the 4 year old) till recently. I have lost over 40 lbs in the last 6 months and am sleeping much better since the kids are sleeping better. Anyway, I want sex all the time much to dh's delight :) I'm having multiple orgasms and been able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation quite frequently which rarely happened before. Before I couldn't care less if we only had sex 1-2 a month, now I want it every day or several times a day. I'm also thinking about sex alot more than ever before. I've been sexually active since I was 16, not had a lot of partners but enough of a variety, sex seems so much better lately than ever. So does it sound like I'm hitting my peak or do you think it's a combination of losing weight, having more energy, getting more sleep etc??? How did you feel when you entered into your peak phase? how long did it last?

I've always had a high libido but there were times when the kids were small, our life was busier and more stressful that we had a choice, have sex or grab that few hours of sleep that we really need.
Well, let's see....my first peak was in my late teens, then again in my late 20's, after having both my sons. Then, pretty much all of my 30's and 40's. LOL!
I don't believe in that kind of sexual "peak" myself. From my own experience, we go through peaks and valleys throughout our lives. Enjoy this one!
I'm with Katmandoo & Tish.......there are ups and downs throughout your life, but if you have a healthy attitude about sex, and you have good physical health, there's no reason you can't be sexually active and enjoy every minute of it until you're in your 70's or even later than that.
I'll be 70 before this year is over, and for me, it might not be as often, but it's even better than when I was younger because I've gotten over the hang-ups and inhibitions that I had in my 20's, 30's and even my 40's. I don't care anymore that I have "flaws", and my body is far from perfect. That has no bearing on my pleasure.
If you have a good relationship, and good health....the "peak" can last forever. Relationships are a "work in progress" and if you keep working on them, they just get better and better.
I am 35 and have also recently *peeked*.