LADIES - where do you personally PREF...

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LADIES - where do you personally PREF...
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Mon, 01-30-2006 - 7:23am

LADIES - where do you personally PREFER your man to ejaculate?



  • on my face
  • in my mouth and swallow
  • in my mouth and spit
  • on my breasts
  • on my tummy
  • on my butt / back
  • anywhere below the neck
  • in my vagina (condom)
  • in my vagina (no condom)
  • I would honestly prefer he NOT ejaculate anywhere on or in me


You will be able to change your vote.


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Registered: 01-05-2006
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 6:52pm

what is emotional intimacy in intercouse and how is that different from when you two dont relate sexually

or what is mean't by emotional intimacy in intercourse

how do i put this into words:

So when you receive his semen even though it is a minor annoyance since it is not producing children -since you are a onging receiver of semen everytime and it comes back out of you -what makes up for the receive of it every time? -for the woman in intercourse-what other than orgasm for the women if that is it? -what meaning do you derive from the fact that the result of him leaving semen in you- -how do i word this-for intercourse -am i making sense?

I realize that semen is a minor annoyance and that it happens every time etc. and i realize that a woman likes intercourse maybe even teh receive of semen-why- if she likes feeling it and receive it: do you?- what makes intercourse besides the pleasure etc worth the receive of semen every time etc.? I hope i am making sense?

JS

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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 7:15pm

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:46am

The emotional intimacy comes from our relationship, not the physical closeness of intercourse. We have 30 yrs. of life together at this point. I love and care for my DH so the emotional intimacy comes from those feelings.

And I accept the minor annoyance of drippage because it results from making my DH happy. I enjoy giving him pleasure and his semen is a sign of that pleasure.

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:06am
Semen is a sign of that pleasure for you and him; or him or you? I took that to say that semen is a sign of pleasure for you. Am i wrong or right?
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:20am
Well, it's a sign of HIS ultimate pleasure. He is looking for other signs of mine. But even if neither of us orgasms during an experience, we still receive physical and emotional intimacy from it. The goal isn't the orgasm necessarily. Giving pleasure is.
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:11am

Thank you for your responses. They are helping ....

But I thought semen was orgasm for the man-am i wrong or right... if not then what is an orgasm for the man if it is not the semen then?

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:59am

A man can orgasm without ejaculation (semen), they are actually two separate things going on but many times happen at the same time.


I believe Kat's point was that having an orgasm isn't a *goal*,


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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 1:57pm

Thanks Tish. And yes, that was my point.

Not every session ends with an orgasm because we aren't robots and life, etc. can affect us. Actually, the arousal and pleasure leading up to orgasm can be every bit as gratifying as the orgasm itself. And that's typically why we try to prolong it.

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 7:47pm

Do I understand you right in that a man can orgasm without semen being released (do i see that right)?

When closeness is said -what is mean't by that in intercourse that is not the physical side of it is it? is it emotional and other than the physical -what else is it?

JudithS

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Mon, 06-05-2006 - 6:36pm
I voted "in my vagina (no condom)." That is by far my favorite. Everywhere else is okay too, except for "on my face" because I don't like that at all. One boyfriend did that to me once when he intentionally pulled out of my mouth when I was performing oral sex on him. I didn't expect it and he got it in my eyes and nose. That was not a happy night for me. :( Or him after he got me so mad. :)

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