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| Wed, 07-04-2007 - 3:30pm |
Ladies, why would you most desire to visit the planned male brothel by Vegas?
- To satisy my need for "take my breath away" no strings attached sex
- To experiment with taboo sex that wouldn't be possible with significant other
- To be able to be serviced by a real well-built hunk
- To have the experience of having sex with a hunk with a real large member
- To live out my DP fantasy
- To be able to satisify my fantasy to be totally dominated
- To satisfy my fantasy of dominating a man; bring on the strap-on!
- To have a lap dance where, unlike a male strip club, he could actually do me!
- Basically, just because I am horny!!!
- Visitng the brothel would not be of interest
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I hope you realize that a poll posted here isn't exactly a scientific experiment. You hardly have a random sampling of people, and people are able to vote without even being logged on. Thus, people can also vote more than one time. Many people also have multiple accounts and could further alter the results of the poll, if they so desired.
Personally, I know that the options available on the poll do not suit any answer that I would select. It is always a good idea to have the option "other, please explain" when posting a poll.
Personally, I would need to know more about the brothel. Things like the location, the services offered, and the overall environment of the establishment would make a huge difference in whether I would even considering visiting. I think you have placed options based on what you feel women may be looking for. I feel a brothel designed for women to visit would operate differently than a brothel designed for men to visit.
Especially since you mention events such as lap dances in your poll, I'm not sure that I have a clear understanding of what exactly the brothel will be offering.
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Appreciate your suggestions.....another option is a good idea. I am curious what your "other" option may be? I imagine that the brothel will be quite different than the brothels for men. Most likely the brothel will be more discreet and sensual, offering services from massage to pampering to sex at the woman's discretion.
In Russia, they have combined a male strip club with private rooms where the women can have private time including sex with the dancer of choice if desired. Although it sounds hard to believe at first, apparently some of the women actually give the men oral sex while on stage. So that would be another option - male strippers with private rooms.
You can check it out the Russia version at:
www.redcap.ru
www.funreports.com/fun/17-03-2006/1349-male-strippers-0
www.go-magazine.ru/events/detail.php?ID=5558
Use babelfish.altavista.com to translate the Russian web site.
I think you will find that women would tend to be pampered, massaged, teased and the sort. Being in a monogamous relationship, I certainly wouldn't be there to actually have sex with anyone -- but leaving there, feeling good about myself might be a wonderful option. Unlike women, I don't think many men would complain if their wives or girlfriends came home and jumped their bones for action from such an event. As a matter of fact, some guys might even pay to send their ladies there!
I can see situations where women may want some experiences they don't encounter IRL, and those women may well go to such a brothel with the intent of paying for sex. I can also imagine that some women (or couples) would visit the establishment for 3-some or more-some encounters as well.
As far as your comment about women giving a stripper a blow job, I think that you are overlooking the fact that there are women who actually enjoy this sex act. Just as there are men that would enjoy touching women or performing sexual acts on those women that don't necessarily provide for their own release, there are actually females that can derive the same sorts of pleasures.
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My original thought would be to say "women don't need to pay for sex". In my experience, any woman that wants to have sex, simply put, can. However, the views on sex have also greatly changed in recent years. Woman aren't laying down (pun intended) to provide sexual gratification for men as easily as they once may have. The focus has shifted much more to the pleasure for her. While I realize that not all relationships only considered the mans satisfaction, I think woman are taking a stand. This has in a large part been because of education and the ease with which sex is discussed. Woman have learned that they can expect more from sex, and they are seeking their own pleasure.
Given those thoughts, the option of having a one night stand with some guy you meet in a bar may not be as appealing as going to such a brothel and having the knowledge that the primary goal of this person (that you have paid) is to satisfy you. Women often take the option of the "sure thing" in life. I also find that most people are less inhibited when they are somewhere they feel they are safe, but unknown. I know that personally I would never visit a local strip club; however, it is one of the #1 activities DH and I enjoy when we travel. While a woman may not think she would give a guy a blow job in public, being in such a brothel isn't exactly a typical public place. The old saying "when in Rome" could certainly come into play in such an establishment.
I recently saw a show on HBO where 3 women were testing a male doll (similar to the blow up doll). The three women were together for the test, each taking their turn. They were openly discussing what they liked and didn't like, trying different positions, etc. These were all young women, certainly under the age of 25. I'm 44, and I can't imagine ever having done such a thing with friends present, or discussing with them in such detail what my preferences were. I've always been pretty open about sex, and discussing sex, but that would certainly be too much exposure for me. Yet I can come to this message board, where people don't know me IRL, and I can openly and comfortably discuss the same sorts of things.
Another example would be the home-based businesses that are now in the toy industry. Woman aren't having the "Tupperware" lady come in for a night of fun .... they are calling in consultants that sell sex toys. Imagine the woman that is walking around advertising for people to book a party so she can come and sell sex toys to their friends. This woman has fairly intimate conversations with the guests at these parties. She has to describe the benefits of the products, how to use them, etc. The guests often ask questions so that they can get a product that suits their preferences or needs.
I could describe other things that I have seen, or heard about through others. My main point is that a lot of secrets have come out of the closet. Women are bolder about sharing information about the pleasures of sex. In that respect, I don't think the idea of a place for women to be sexually active is such a far fetched idea.
As far as Russia being different than the US, I know that several countries are far more advanced sexually than the US. Our government has always tried to micro manage that part of our life for us as well. Local cities determine what can be aired on cable in their town, whether adult stores can be opened, if strip clubs are legal -- and how much they can bare, even down to what types of sexual positions are legal. I know I was born and raised in Maryland. A law still resides on their books deeming any sexual position other than missionary to be illegal.
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i just wanted to say: a woman does not a need a strap on to dominate a man.
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