Ladies - A WOT question
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| Sat, 03-26-2005 - 11:02pm |
I know every female is different. I know that every female reacts differently. I know that what one woman feels doesn't mean her sister will feel the same way. I know, I know, but still, I'm curious about female-on-top and I'm hoping a few of you will enlighten me.
I have read on many posts that females say they have more control and feeling when they are on top when compared missionary or other positions. I would like to know if having that 'more control/feeling' was there from day one, or was it something you 'learned'.
WOT is a new position for me and I thoroughly enjoy being on top, but I'm not too good in movement area. I need his hip movement to get me into rhythm. When the WOT movement is up to me, I can hardly feel him; however when he moves his hips &/or he moves my hips he sends me into orbit via Gspot. So I'm wondering if, for a female, WOT movements came natural or were learned.
Thanks!

You're right, everyone is so different...but I don't understand why you need him to move to give you the "rhythm". For me, it's nothing more than rotating my hips and "grinding" into him. I don't try to imitate his "thrusting" (which is more for him, not me). I just need him to lie there, and let me move. During that time, HIS pleasure comes from watching me. In my experience, this isn't something to get him "off"....it's all about me. When I've had all I can handle, which can be quite a bit, then it's time for him to be on top and do HIS thing.
For me, it came naturally, but I was older, and less inhibited about sex, and long beyond worrying what I looked like.
>> In my experience, this isn't something to get him "off"....it's all about me.<<
I realize different strokes for different folks (pun intended) applies here, but when my girlfriend grinds in this fashion, the bottom of her vagina rubs my cockhead in a verry good way. Sort of like one of those citrus juicers that you press down and squeeze on to a dome. Whenever she puts my head in shallower, to rub her g-spot, that too creates such pleasurable friction, it's almost unbearable.
I'd have to say...partly learned, partly with some help from the guy. I've had it where it didn't do anything for me, I've had it where it was just as good as missionary, and I have it right now with an experienced partner who shifts and he can see my reaction and he KNOWS when he's got me in the right spot.
But honestly, I agree with the earlier post. The WOT is definently more about the woman's pleasure, because usually you're going to be grinding, but that doesn't mean the guy won't benefit. He gets to watch, and feel, and know that the woman's enjoying it, and that in itself can be a huge heat factor. One position that I've found to be equally stimulating for both...the reverse cowgirl. But then again, it does vary from woman to woman, and also from couple to couple.
Very much varies with different couples.
We enjoyed that position from day one and somehow managed to enjoy more as time passed. It was definitely about her enjoyment first, but my enjoyment resulted from it no matter what.
Reverse is pretty difficult for physically, but we're working on using a variation that has me leaning more toward her than laying back away from her.
And yes, its more about the grinding for us than it is anything else. Also, the control is practically all hers and she does enjoy the freedom my hands have for her too.
Our favorite position by far.
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Unoshopper, I am a man and firmly believe that the best things about sex are learned, so you will continue to learn as you enjoy.
I absolutely love woman on top. My wife doesn't get as much out of it as she does from missionary, but, then again, everyone is different. We save WOT for those times when I feel a need for a really long orgasm with a lot of build-up.
One day, I told my wife to suck my nipple while she was grinding. I never fantasized about this or even wondered about it, but it turned out to be an extremey great erogenous zone for me. I have never had such great orgasms from anything during sex as I get from WOT with my wife sucking my left nipple (my right one is less sensitive). Try it, he just might love it.
See what you were missing out on? LOL!!!
Like I said, for us Paras thats our favorite and we typically have our with that position. Glad you got 'im with that one! :)
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