Ladies: would you rather your guy.....

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Ladies: would you rather your guy.....
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Fri, 03-23-2007 - 5:44pm
cum in you....cum on you (butt, breasts, stomach, etc.) or does it depend on your mood, and if so, why?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 03-31-2007 - 11:06pm
I agree, my first BF was terrible at performing oral sex, and I was way too shy to tell him what he was doing wrong. I know that when he tried to perform oral sex, he had his heart in the right place, but it was an experience that I would have much rather avoided.





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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 8:34am

me: "there are men who are terrible at oral on women"

you: "if you base your observation on personal experience, or on what your friends have told you?"

I base my observation on both, unfortunately...it's just so difficult to make suggestions in that particular situation...and I would hate to discourage a man that is willing and eager to please. I have, at times, made comments about the similarities and differences in technique between giving a bj and oral on a woman. Outside of the bedroom, of course. Some men can take a hint, some sadly cannot.











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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 8:38am
I can relate! And I've found that squirming can be taken as a negative or a positive reaction...lol. And I do think men's hearts are in the right place, and they are so eager to please. I guess the 'right' thing to do would be to 'fess up (outside the bedroom) about what "I" like (in detail)- and stress that all women are different.











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Registered: 03-27-2007
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 1:12pm
If I'm lucky enough to where she'll let me cum on her breasts, it is incredible when she takes some and rubs it all over me - down there to keep me cumming - but I love rubbing it all over her breasts myself, which feels great to her, and then licking and sucking them.

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