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Lap Dances
| Thu, 07-07-2005 - 5:43pm |
I am so nervous about giving my man a lap dance. I am very self concious and I don't know what to do. Any advice on how to cure that and any tips on how to start out on a lap dance or anything would be much appreciated!

What is a lap dance? It's simulated sex. That's all. So, whatever you would do in this position sexually, is what you would do during a lap dance. Your rub yourself on his lap, while touching your breasts, etc.
The only way to get comfortable doing anything for the first time, is to do it and continue doing it until it feels more natural to you.
But IF this isn't enjoyable for YOU, then don't do it.
i would start off the mood bet setting your man in a chair add some romantic lighting and some sexy music to dance too and tease him until he can't stand it anymore you could also spice it up by not allowing him to touch you . as for an outfit F*ck me boots and a thong always work but do what you feel comfy with and enjoy
cheers Nicole
Funny Rice. No, sad really that THAT was your first thought. You've obviously had some unresponsive partners!
But I would have to disagree with you. If a woman was willing to lie on a stage, with her legs open for men to examine at will. She'd make money!
Edited 7/8/2005 1:31 am ET ET by katmandoo2001