UP LATE ONE NITE!!!!!!
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| Fri, 06-15-2007 - 6:09am |
I was up late by myself one night flipping through the movie channels. I came to a movie were two beautiful women were making love!! I turned away and then turned back, I couldn't look away, my eyes were glued to the women kissing and licking each other!!!!!!!!!!! I found myself getting very aroused and hot. Before I knew it my panties were wet!!!!!!!!! I have find myself thinking about a beautiful, sexy,voluptuous, women touching me,licking me ,kissing me, and just having her way with me!!!!!!!!!!(LOL) I AM MARRIED TO A GOOD MAN, I have been for 10 years now. I have never had or experienced a relationship with anyone besides my husband. I have not told anyone how I have been feeling or thinking, because this type of thinking and behavior would be frowned upon and preceived as dirty and preverted.... Am I the only one who has had these type of thoughts and feelings??????????? Am I betraying my relationship with my husband , because I want a women to make me feel good all over my body??? Is this normal or do I need Help???????????
I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO WANT ME AND MAKE ME FEEL GOOD FOR A CHANGE!!!!!!!! PLEASE TELL ME WHAT U THINK??????

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thanks steve for your great advice. You are so right about how I feel. I have shared with my husband about my feeling,but he just doesn't seem to get it!!!!!!!! I bring him much pleasure and joy, and I am LEFT feeling overly aroused and unsatisfied!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know..........
sincerely alone
I'm very sorry to hear that, Alone. If you're left feeling alone and unsatisfied by your husband, it's no wonder you had a spontaneous fantasy about a situation you perceived would give you more pleasure than he does. Do you masturbate, and if so would you feel comfortable doing it in front of DH? If you can show him what it is that you enjoy, how to get you aroused and bring you to orgasm, that might sink in with him a little better than just trying to explain it to him.
I'm sure he knows how, but maybe he just needs some prompting from you. Sometimes people get lazy when they're married awhile. Start talking to him.....tell him what you saw on TV and maybe that'll get him interested.
But, what you really have to talk to him about (OUT of the bedroom) is that you're feeling lonely, and you want to strenghten your connection with him. Communication is very important....maybe he thinks you're no longer interested in him...people aren't mind readers, they have to TALK!!!
Again, you need to talk to him.....not in the bedroom....OUT of the bedroom, and you need to bring up the fact that you do what you can to please him......and if he cared about you and your feelings, he'd do the same! You might even ask him if there's something you're missing, that he wants something that you're not doing.....show him that YOU'RE willing to try.
Steve, you're allowed to post the actual link.....it makes it easier than trying to read it phonetically.....www.the-clitoris.com
That site is practically a "bible" around here! I found it when I was in my 60's, and I learned things I'd never known! (I'm female)
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