I like a little bit of light....enough to see around the room but not a bright overhead light. I like to put a silk scarf or something like that over a side lamp.
Either is fine. We have sex a lot during the day time hours, so there is natural light. During the night time, if we've already gone to bed then it's dark. Our bathroom night light always casts a bit of light into our room.
I prefer it not to be all the way dark cause he has a tendency to stare in my eyes and I want to stare back. That sure makes sex intense. Never had someone want to do that so much before. I love it!
Since I became very active sexually just after my twelve birthday, I have engaged in all kinds of sexual adventures in both natural daylight and complete darkness {5th Ave. theatre balcony} I really never even think about the lighting. it just doesn't matter to me. My hubby enjoys looking at my body and especially my breasts bouncing if I am riding his mmmmmm.
It never really mattered to me until a couple months ago....and now I want to have at least some light so we can see each other when we are together. What has changed? I got Lasik surgery on my eyes and now I CAN SEE THE LIGHT (ha ha). It didn't matter to me before because even if the lights were on , I couldn't see anything anyway. And then, I think I preferred it dark, because I had no idea how I "looked" to him, and I was paranoid about being unattractive. Now that I can see everything, I realize that I have nothing to be paranoid about.
I strongly, strongly, without a doubt, recommend Lasik surgery to anyone who might be thinking about it. It has literally changed my outlook on life (no pun intended ..ha ha). I know it is off topic, but I went to LasikPlus (a nationwide chain) and have a coupon for 100 bucks off a procedure if it is done before November. If anyone is interested, send me an email and I could send it to ya in the mail. I have nothing to gain by giving my coupon to someone, so I am not trying to sell anything.
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It never really mattered to me until a couple months ago....and now I want to have at least some light so we can see each other when we are together. What has changed? I got Lasik surgery on my eyes and now I CAN SEE THE LIGHT (ha ha). It didn't matter to me before because even if the lights were on , I couldn't see anything anyway. And then, I think I preferred it dark, because I had no idea how I "looked" to him, and I was paranoid about being unattractive. Now that I can see everything, I realize that I have nothing to be paranoid about.
I strongly, strongly, without a doubt, recommend Lasik surgery to anyone who might be thinking about it. It has literally changed my outlook on life (no pun intended ..ha ha). I know it is off topic, but I went to LasikPlus (a nationwide chain) and have a coupon for 100 bucks off a procedure if it is done before November. If anyone is interested, send me an email and I could send it to ya in the mail. I have nothing to gain by giving my coupon to someone, so I am not trying to sell anything.