Lets give her a helping hand!
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Lets give her a helping hand!
| Thu, 04-07-2005 - 4:52am |
Here's a quote from one of our newcomers:
>>...ummm im new to all of this just let you know, so i am just wondering how to give a good hj and bj...you said you found ppl to be really helpful in here so i am wondering if you could help me out....i have a boyfriend and want to expand on our relationship so any advice that you have would be wonderful! thanks!<<
My dumb question of the week is...can anyone advise her on this??? LMHO!!
Islandkissxd, welcome to the board! ;)

Well, of course! She has to ask him what he likes, and what feels good to him. Every man likes different things, and HE'S the only one who can tell her what that is.
The standard reply to that statement is one of two things: "I'm too shy" or "I don't know him well enough to talk about stuff like that".
My standard reply to THAT is: If you're too shy to ask, then you shouldn't be doing it. If you don't know him well enough to talk to him about it, then you don't know him well enough to do those things.
Yep, I couldn't agree more.
I thought I gave great BJ's until I met my DH....who quickly taught me how HE likes it done. Likewise, I like my clitoris stimulated in a different manner to my DH's past girlfriends.
We're all so wonderfully different - and therefore there is no golden rule on how to give the best BJ or HJ.
Thanks for the replies so far.
If anyone has any techniques or skills or fun ideas to add, please bring 'em. In the meantime, here's very informative threads I've found from various IVillage boards and a helpful website too:
http://members.tripod.com/midniterambler2002-ivil/goingdownfurther/id14.html
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlimproveyou&msg=1239.1
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlpleasurepr/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlpleasurepr&msg=6921.10
I'm hoping a board like this will have some nifty ideas the same way it has for cunnilingus tips, so lets have 'em y'all!
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