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| Fri, 07-13-2007 - 10:21am |
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Here are some questions to get you started. Hope you have fun with your thread!
What first brought you to iVillage?
How long have you been working at your current job?
Do you watch pornography? If so, how often?
Have you ever had a sexual experience that you regretted?
Who is stricter with your kids, you or DW?
Are you planning a vacation this Summer? If so, where to?
Have you ever been caught having sex or doing something sexual? If so, details, details….
Do you and DW use sex toys together?
Have you and DW ever experienced a time when your sex life together wasn’t as fulfilling as you would like it to be?
If you got to go to a tropical paradise for 3 days with 3 women, who would you take and what would you have them do?
Also, remember, you can ask a question of each member as well. Just include your question for them in your reply to their questions.
my partner in the siggy exchange
What first brought you to iVillage?
Heard about it and I figured that this was a good place to find like-minded people (like those on the Taboo and Fantasy boards, yeah I'm like that). I like to talk about sex but not in a chat-room sort of setting.
How long have you been working at your current job?
13 years
Do you watch pornography? If so, how often?
Yes, daily.
Have you ever had a sexual experience that you regretted?
Yes, "performance issues". Ok, I was a teen and it was totally understandable. I was with my girlfriend and we were going to get it on and I was ready. I MEAN TEEN-HORNY READY. Then she utters the words, "hurry up mom will be home in 20 mins". Oh that killed it! Any way, the next day I made sure I was over there a few hours before mom came home and it all went REALLY well.
Who is stricter with your kids, you or DW?
Oh, I am. Wifey gives in to them all the time. I punish them for a week and I have no problem with them serving the full sentence. On the other hand, by day two DW wants to let them get off.
Are you planning a vacation this Summer? If so, where to?
No, I just finished and furnished the basement, in a addition, we have a big Florida one planned for next year.
Have you ever been caught having sex or doing something sexual? If so, details, details….
My dad came in on my girlfriend and I and she was down to her underwear. Although she just gave me BJ's and nothing else he always swore we were having sex.
While in collage I was working in my office and my girlfriend came by and one thing led to an other. Next thing you know my boss is knocking on the door. We fixed ourselves up and she exited the office. Yeah, I got fired.
Do you and DW use sex toys together?
Yes, we have quite a few and used them regularly. I use them on her, she uses with or without me and she uses them on me.
Have you and DW ever experienced a time when your sex life together wasn’t as fulfilling as you would like it to be?
We have been together for close to 20 years so yeah there have been rough patches, but they did not last too long. We talk a lot so we usually work though what the issues are and how to fix them. Her weight fluctuates a lot so in the past when she was heavier she did not feel too sexy. But she has gotten use to her body and knows I love her and found her hot no matter how she was. Now she is still losing weight but it is more for health reasons and better "flexibility (OH YEAH)".
If you got to go to a tropical paradise for 3 days with 3 women, who would you take and what would you have them do?
Ok, man-fantasy here so don’t start rolling your eyes people.
I would take my wife, and any two of the following (Sarah Michelle Gellar (Buffy), Angelina Jolie (Mrs. Smith), Kate Beckinsale (Underworld), Carrie-Anne Moss (Trinity, Matrix), Natalie Portman (Star Wars), Krisin Kreuk (Smallville)). We would play out all the fantasies my wife and I (or more like the ones I have) and think up some new ones. We would do threesomes, foursomes, girl-on-girl, girls-on-girls, sex slaves role play, torture, in the water, food items, watch my wife get taken by two women with strap-ons, yeah it would be a busy 3 days. We would need a week to recover.
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Cl-misty mae:
Since you have a fear of heights, does that mean that having sex on a high place (penthouse of a 30 story building) be out of the question?
Who is the dominant one in the bedroom, you or your hubby?
Have to ask and try to force you to be the first to take the 5th, what is the "unique" talent?
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby?
If you have shared them all…
Which (of yours) would you not do?
Which (of yours) would he not do?
Which (of his) would you not do?
Happy together for 20+ years....

Gee i-am-in-the-cellar, that's a big question!
Since you have a fear of heights, does that mean that having sex on a high place (penthouse of a 30 story building) be out of the question?
So long as there was an elevator to get me there, I would be able to have sex in the penthouse, but not on the edge of the roof of the penthouse. I usually feel safe if the railing seems sturdy as well; however, glass railings and open stairs/ladders present a big problem. I actually did have sex while standing on a 6th floor balcony just a few months ago!
Who is the dominant one in the bedroom, you or your hubby?
I think we take turns a little bit, but I'm probably the more dominant one. I actually wish he would take charge a bit more, at least with introducing new ideas.
Have to ask and try to force you to be the first to take the 5th, what is the "unique" talent?
LOL -- I didn't figure I could mention it in my profile, but I think on this board it's fine. I can get DH from "no chance of an erection" to a full erection during a handless blowjob. This is usually after atleast 2 orgasms on his part. It's a running joke we have because before he met me, he always thought hands were necessary for a good blow job ;-)
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby?
I haven't gone into great detail with him about fantasies I have of MFM arrangements. He's very uncomfortable with the thought of another guy possibly touching him.
I think that our fantasies that we would never actually do IRL all center around bringing other partners into our bed with us. We entertain those ideas in fantasy alone.
So, did I pass? LOL
my partner in the siggy exchange
Yes, that was a good start.....
Who is the dominant one in the bedroom, you or your hubby?
cl-misty_mae--I think we take turns a little bit, but I'm probably the more dominant one. I actually wish he would take charge a bit more, at least with introducing new ideas.
So have you talked to him about taking charge? How did you go about it? I think my wife feels the same way. Don't get me wrong, I take charge, but she wants it rougher. My issue was more of the fear of getting too rough, ie leaving bruises. So she is walking me though it all, so now there is harder spanking, pinching, hair pulling and the like. So I expect her to keep elevating everything until she has reach her maximun comfort level.
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Have to ask and try to force you to be the first to take the 5th, what is the "unique" talent?
cl-misty_mae--LOL -- I didn't figure I could mention it in my profile, but I think on this board it's fine. I can get DH from "no chance of an erection" to a full erection during a handless blowjob. This is usually after atleast 2 orgasms on his part. It's a running joke we have because before he met me, he always thought hands were necessary for a good blow job ;-)
Ok, I understand now. But I will say that is a very good skill to have.
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We will see what else I am asked.
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....

Here's some more for you....
1. How long have you been married?
2. Where did you go for your honeymoon?
3. How many email accounts do you have?
4. Who introduced toys in your marriage?
5. One thing you've done that you regret?
6. What is your favorite sex position?
7. Most romantic thing you've done for dw? And she for you?
Hey!!
1-How old are you?
2-What CD is in your radio right now?
3-Is there anything you've wanted to do sexually w/ DW but havent? why?
4-Do you have any animals?
5-What is your job?
6-Do you love your job?
7-Do you and DW use a form of BC?
8-How often does DW give you oral?
9-What's your favorite thing to eat?
10-Favorite vacation you've ever been on?
1. How long have you been married?
Going on 16 years.
2. Where did you go for your honeymoon?
St. Maarten, it took 60 minutes to drive around the whole island. So what did we do for a week? Sex, beach, casino, and drink for 7 says straight.
3. How many email accounts do you have?
8 accounts, and dw know of them all. Even the one called hot-man-looking-for-fun@hotmail.com, no I am just joking, she did not let me set that one up.
4. Who introduced toys in your marriage?
I did, but wifey has been picking the last few. She likes the glass ones and also looks for ones she can use on me.
5. One thing you've done that you regret?
Got into heavy credit card debt and delaying our long term plans.
6. What is your favorite sex position?
Doggie first and foremost, the second one would be any position I can get my wife in.
7. Most romantic thing you've done for dw? And she for you?
Wow, don’t want to sound like we are not romantic, but we always do little things for each other. It's never been one big thing I always surprise her with little stuff. Every week that I do the groceries I bring her flowers. So over the course of a year she would get flowers 30 times. Once (a long time ago when we were dating), I bought the entire bucket of mini roses from the guy at the train station and I told her to please bring in my umbrella. When she opened the door the bucket of roses where there in front of her. I like doing odd stuff rather than romantic stuff. Once I got her the uglies stuffed animal, and trust me, it was ugly and gave it to her. It took her a while to get over the hediousness of the creature, but then she noticed the ring on the stuff animals hand and changed her mood a bit.
So she has never done one big thing either. I just notice the little thinks she does that I FIND ROMATIC. I would be sitting at the pc and she sends me a link to a new toy she want us to use. I'm like "how sweet", she was thinking of us. Isn't that the meaning of romantic, showing the other person that you were thinking of them. I tell her sweet stuff all the time, like when she is in the kitchen, "honey I would really like to bend you over the counter, pull down your underware, ***** you, pull up them back and and let you go about your business".
i-am-in-the-cellar
nhgal2006
Have you or your husband had an affair? If not, did either of you get close to having one?
Would you consider yourself straight, curious, or bi?
Saw you had a webpage, it said I needed to be an adult. What is on it?
Have you ever made a sex oriented video or taken pictures. Who were they shared with?
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby?
If you have shared them all…
Which (of yours) would you not do?
Which (of yours) would he not do?
Which (of his) would you not do?
Happy together for 20+ years....

1-How old are you?
39
2-What CD is in your radio right now?
Beyonce, Justin Timberlake
3-Is there anything you've wanted to do sexually w/ DW but havent? why?
Yes, there is a long list. Don’t know what you would call it but I more freaky, nastier, sicker, twisted than DW (she is soooo lucky). So over time I have been de-programming her from strict upbringing and getting her over to the “dark side”. I trying to bring more dom\sub play into it along with golden showers, facials, some aspect of pain, anal DP, fisting, and she is aware of all of it is coming along fine.
4-Do you have any animals?
If you exclude the two kids, no, no animals.
5-What is your job?
Computer programmer.
6-Do you love your job?
Love my job, but would like to do it somewhere else.
7-Do you and DW use a form of BC?
Yes and no, I got “my tubes tied” after our last child.
8-How often does DW give you oral?
Almost every time we have sex. Oral is a big part of foreplay, and sex and after sex.
9-What's your favorite thing to eat?
I have many, Hagen-Daz chocolate ice cream, watermelon, Chinese, Italian, yes there are many.
10-Favorite vacation you've ever been on?
Aside from my honeymoon, it would be the baseball parks. We have be going to see the Yankees play at different parks and so far we have
been to Baltimore, Tampa, New York and Kansas city.
i-am-in-the-cellar
kendenrayne
Does your avatar resemble you in real life?
Do you communicate with others from the board directly?
Would you consider yourself straight, curious, or bi?
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby?
If you have shared them all…
Which (of yours) would you not do?
Which (of yours) would he not do?
Which (of his) would you not do?
How many lovers did you have before your husband, and have you told him the details about them?
Happy together for 20+ years....

I love your response to the romantic things... That's exactly the kind of answer I was looking for. Thank you.
Have you or your husband had an affair? If not, did either of you get close to having one? Well, I guess you could say I have.
Would you consider yourself straight, curious, or bi? Oh I am definitely straight.
Saw you had a webpage, it said I needed to be an adult. What is on it? Well, that depends.. Are you an adult.. lol.. It's basically like here but anything goes...Hence the adult concept......
Have you ever made a sex oriented video or taken pictures. Who were they shared with? Took a picture of hubby in the bathtub once. He took a pic of me, too.. Hmm, I wonder where those are.... Didn't share them with anyone... If I find them, you want to see... lol
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby? Most anything that we've ever wanted to try in the past we have.
If you have shared them all…
Which (of yours) would you not do?
Which (of yours) would he not do? Geesh, the only thing I want now is sex.
Which (of his) would you not do?
nhgal2006
"Have you or your husband had an affair? If not, did either of you get close to having one? Well, I guess you could say I have."
...you have come close or had one?
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....

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