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| Fri, 07-13-2007 - 10:21am |
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Does your avatar resemble you in real life?---I only wish my stomach was that flat...LOL
I love wearing sexy lingerie and bra and panties set though. So in a way yes.
Do you communicate with others from the board directly?---A couple
Would you consider yourself straight, curious, or bi?---Straight, I mean I guess I have been curious from time to time, but if it came right down to it I don't think I'd do it.
What fantasies have you not shared with your hubby?---He doesn't know my fantasy of being with an older man.
If you have shared them all…
Which (of yours) would you not do?---I don't know
Which (of yours) would he not do?---He wouldn't let me be with an older man...LOL
Which (of his) would you not do?---Right now I really only know of 1 thing he wants that I won't do, which is anal......I might try it sometime down the road but for now, no.
How many lovers did you have before your husband, and have you told him the details about them?---I had 2....No I haven't shared any details with him....
I will have more questions for you soon!!!
I hope you like the answers
"So have you talked to him about taking charge? How did you go about it?"
Well, we've been talking about sex in general a whole lot more lately than we ever did. Mainly, I started talking to him back in December with some Christmas gifts I gave him. I played the "Dirty Little Elf" and presented him with 7 gifts between Christmas and New years. They were small things like lube, mini vibe, flavored body paint, etc. They each had a message with them, and in early January, we went away for the weekend with what seemed like a suitcase full of props.
Seems that opened a lot of new doors! We've also continued to talk, and we're slowly moving into the phase of him taking more control.
So, here's a couple more for you
Has your DW ever winced at any of the sexual things you have mentioned wanting to try?
If you were giving sexual advice to newlyweds, what would you say to them?
Do you talk openly about sexual issues with your children?
Have you ever had an affair or thought about having one?
Did you visit La Samana in St. Martin's? (not sure of the spelling on that)
When you visited St. Martin's, did you stay on the Dutch or the French side?
my partner in the siggy exchange
Your answers are great, I love the romance answers.
2-How many sexual partners have you had?
3-Have you ever cheated on you wife?
4-How often do you and DW have sex?
5-Do you talk with anyone from the boards off the borads?
Has your DW ever winced at any of the sexual things you have mentioned wanting to try?
Of course, and I then she tries it and judges for herself. I am the same way, she said "hon, I got a new toy and I want to stick in your ***", I was like "what are you nuts?, ok, let try it and see how it goes". When I told her I wanted to put her on the side of the bed and throat-f*** her she was like "what!", followed by ok let’s do it once and see how it goes. So the wince never bothers me cause it is an understandable initial response to some of the crazy things we talk about but as long as it is followed by a "hell, let’s try it anyway" it is all good.
If you were giving sexual advice to newlyweds, what would you say to them?
Golden rule for sex or relationships in general; "you can never talk too much to each other".
Do you talk openly about sexual issues with your children?
I have a 14 year old and 8 year old. I talk with the 14 a lot. We watch all kinds of movies and I take opportunities during certain scenes to touch on various topics. It works a lot better than sitting him down cold for a "sex talk".
Have you ever had an affair or thought about having one?
No, I have not had one or thought about having one.
Did you visit La Samana in St. Martin's? (not sure of the spelling on that)
No, do not think so. It was 16 years ago so some details are blurry.
When you visited St. Martin's, did you stay on the Dutch or the French side?
French.
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....

So you love porn, have you made your own with your wife?
We have not made ours yet, but it a plan for when the kids go back to school.
On another note, it is not a love for porn. I could live without it, but it has become an great source of ideas. It is a lot easier to see something on screen and turn to my wife and say “wow, let’s try that”. My wife watches a lot of it, so it is so much fun to get a email at work saying “I just saw this guy do this and that to this girl, I want you to do it to me tonight”.
Would DW be interested in others joining you in the bedroom?
If you are asking for a yes or no answer, I would say no. We both have fantasies about threesomes but are not at the point of wanting them to come true.
Do you like to read, what kind of books?
How-to-books, Clive Barker, New York Yankee history are the subjects I like to read about.
What is taboo to you?
Taboo? Sex with a nun, it’s just wrong and you are going to hell for it. Other than that, there are some things that are just wrong or outright nasty.
What other islands have you visited?
Manhattan island, ok, just some New York City humor. In addition to St Marten, I have also been to the Dominican Republic.
If you had to choose a celebrity to play you, who would that be?
A young Andy Garcia
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marce_jewels
What haven’t you filled out the rest of your profile?
Have you been married before, why\how did it end?
What has your bf asked for that you would not do, and what would you like to ask him to try?
Have you ever gone naked in public?
Happy together for 20+ years....

1-What kind of underwear do you wear if any?
I prefer not to wear any, but when I have to I wear boxers.
2-How many sexual partners have you had?
4
3-Have you ever cheated on you wife?
Never.
4-How often do you and DW have sex?
4 times a week.
5-Do you talk with anyone from the boards off the borads?
No, I do not.
i-am-in-the-cellar
kendenrayne
Who is the dominant one in the bedroom, you or your hubby?
Have you or your husband had an affair? If not, did either of you get close to having one?
Have you ever gone naked in public?
Do you shave, if so trim or bald?
Do you have any piercings?
Happy together for 20+ years....

Point for clarification:
"sexual partners" those you have had IC with? Some people on these boards would consider a person you have oral sex with a "sexual partner". So just asking.
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....

Who is the dominant one in the bedroom, you or your hubby?---We take turns, it's really about even I'd say.
Have you or your husband had an affair? If not, did either of you get close to having one?---NO and No
Have you ever gone naked in public?---NO
Do you shave, if so trim or bald?---I do shave, sometimes it's just a trim somtimes bald...I Love the feeling of being totally shaved.
Do you have any piercings?---Just my ears.
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