Let's Talk About ... mrspe

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Let's Talk About ... mrspe
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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 9:54am

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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 9:51pm

Hello Kendenrayne....nice to see you!


1-What CD is in your radio right now?


Sheryl Crowe


2-What kind of car do you drive?


a Japanese luxury sedan pearl white/camel leather

Mrs P

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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 10:03pm

Oh Mrspe, where to begin!

I have jokingly called this my summer of self discovery.

I have learned so much.

First of all I learned about friendship, and trusting someone to hold your heart and your confidences. I learned that not all women are mean and vicious backstabbers.

I learned that I have many more friends than I ever imagined. I also learned that people I thought were my friends, really were not. but with that, I learned that it was their loss, not mine.

I learned that I am a lot stronger than I thought. I learned that its okay to cry tears of pain and anguish, and those tears can cleanse your soul and boost you to help someone else.

I have learned also about paradox. About how giving yourself over to something, giving part of yourself to someone, can cause you to become stronger, and not weaker as others might think.

I learned a little restraint...... but not much.. still working on that! LOL

But the main thing I learned was that I have to insist that I am treated with respect. That my feelings matter, and no one has the right to hurt me.

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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 10:30pm

But the main thing I learned was that I have to insist that I am treated with respect. That my feelings matter, and no one has the right to hurt me.


Bravo!

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Join me in a toast to a life well lived.....


"There is no passion to be found in playing small - in settling for a life that is less than what you are capable of living." - Nelson Mandela

Mrs P

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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 11:07pm

1- What is your favorite wine?


2- What is the biggest personal challenge you have ever faced?


3- What is your biggest pet peeve?


4- What is the worst pick up line you have ever heard?


5- Name three things you would want to have if you were stuck on a deserted island..



Scarlet

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 6:16am
If you were to pose nude for me, the session would start from the minute you agreed to do it. We would have several email exhanges before meeting face to face, and I would question you about various things and give you suggestions, exercises, really, for you to do beforehand. We would discuss poses and what your personal motivations and hopes from such a session would be. For my part, I would be preparing myself, based on what we discussed. I would want to meet you beforehand, to get to know one another face to face, see you in your environment and outside of it. I would actually not even be carrying a camera with me at first, but observing you and listening to you. You would need to observe and get to know me, as well, and hopefully feel at ease with me.

That done, you would need to set aside several hours, three or four at least, and clear your schedule of everything. I suspect that the photos would be best done at your home, so your family would need to be elsewhere, doing other things.

I would be using a medium format camera, a Rolleiflex twin lens reflex, which gives square negatives, and one of my favourite films, Kodak TriX 400, which is a black and white film - I do mainly black and white photography. The camera would be set up on the tripod, and I would use as much natural light as was available. Failing sufficient light I would use a directed light source off camera, but no flash. As a result, the poses would likely be somewhat long, which would mean I'd be using a cable release on the camera. That would mean that you would need to be relaxed and comfortable, which I think would suit you, anyway. The nature of the poses and how you would come across would depend on our conversations, but I have a fairly good idea of what could be incorporated. Shall we say discreet, tasteful and sensual, to start with? Also, you mentioned somewhere else the number of pairs of shoes in your collection - I could also see an incredibly wonderful shot involving you in the midst of those shoes. Things like that, you nude with all those shoes around you, would likely be expressive of a certain aspect of who you are and how you see yourself. Which, incidentally, is an important aspect of it, not so much how I as the photographer see you, but how you see and present yourself, and how I see it and work with it, it that makes any sense.

It would be very enjoyable, but believe me, it is hard work for both the photographer and the model. We would be quite tired, but it will have been worth it. Of course, since I am using film, you won't see the photos for a while. Waiting is all part of the pleasure of it, though.
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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 11:01am

The contents of my purse....LOL...let me see here....Address book, Date book, tampons, deoderent, purfume, chap stick, jump drive

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Wed, 09-19-2007 - 12:49pm

Steve! Wonderful questions and I see you have shown remarkable restraint and consideration.....


Mrs P

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 1:18pm

Mrs P

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 1:41pm

It occurs to me I have forgotten my question to you.....


so...


Steve, describe the worst date you have ever been on......

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Join me in a toast to a life well lived.....


"There is no passion to be found in playing small - in settling for a life that is less than what you are capable of living." - Nelson Mandela

Mrs P

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 2:01pm

Mrs P