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| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:24am |
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Hi Nenu … let’s get your questions started ;-)
How long have you been in to photography?
Have you ever photographed things of a sexual nature?
What are your favorite subjects to photograph?
Do you manipulate your photos digitally?
How long have you been interested in writing?
Have you ever submitted any written works?
Do you ever write things related to photos you have taken?
How old were you when you became sexually active?
What is the climate in your neighborhood this time of year?
How many countries have you visited?
Do you have a schedule day(s) for sex each week?
Have you ever given sexual advice to anyone IRL? If so, who?
Is there a question that you have always wanted to be asked? If so, what? And the answer?
If you had 3 days, 3 men and 1 woman at an exclusive resort with you for sexcapades, tell us what you think would happen?
my partner in the siggy exchange
Have you ever photographed things of a sexual nature?Yes.
What are your favorite subjects to photograph?People, both environmental portraits and nudes, trees, things that show a lot of texture, light that reveals things in an abstract way so that the subject can be difficult to identify and it starts to take on a meaning that is different from what it has as just an object. I become fascinated with photographing the same things over and over again, under different lighting conditions and at different times of the year. Right now I'm taking a lot of photographs of a park near where I live that is gorgeous and has a beautiful lily pond in it, this is the best time of year for it, and it changes constantly. (I have some of those photos on my Connect gallery.) I see something new and different every time I go there.
And I absolutely love to stop and take pictures of people for them, when I see tourists or families who are out for a walk, and one person is taking a group photo. I offer to do that for them, because there is usually someone missing from group photos like that. I don't even care that I don't get to see the potos, it usually makes people happy, and maybe they look at the photo later and say "Oh yes, remember that lady that took the picture for us?". I also just love the feel of having a camera in my hands, and looking through that view finder.
Do you manipulate your photos digitally?I'm really new to using a digital camera, and the amount of digital manipulation I know how to do is quite limited. I have putzed around a little bit with some photos I took, to see what the effects were possible because I was thinking it might be interesting to use in a siggy.
If I were doing digital post-processing in order to get an image ready to be printed I would do the same kind of things to correct whatever I felt needed correcting in order to improve the look of the photo - increase contrast, clean up dust spots etc, as I do in the dark room. On the other hand, I'm not interested in doing heavy manipulation of an image, in order to make it into something it is not and never could have been.
How long have you been interested in writing?I have always written things in one way or another. I come from a family of letter writers and readers, and when we were children, we were expected to write letters to our grandparents, not just thank you letters for gifts, but letters telling them how we were doing, etc, and it was expected that we be coherent. We received letters, too, and I still have some from my family and friends. I love them. I've done more writing since the internet became such an all pervading force than I have in a long time, and I enjoy that, it's great to be writing.
Have you ever submitted any written works?Not in the sense I think you mean, for publication. I have had research contracts that included written reports as part of the work, and have also done translations that were then published, but that's a bit different, because the original text was not my own.
Do you ever write things related to photos you have taken?Sometimes, if you've looked at any of my blogs here on iConnect, I have done a few that were related to the photos. Nenu's Pond
How old were you when you became sexually active?It depends on what you mean, actually. First time for sexual intercourse was 20 years old, first time with heavy make out sessions, deep kissing and so on, about 16.
What is the climate in your neighborhood this time of year?It is getting hot and humid, it's about 32°C outside right now. We've had a lot of thunderstorm activity in the past week and it's ongoing, in fact, there could be one building up right now.
How many countries have you visited?Nine.
Do you have a schedule day(s) for sex each week?I'm not sure if it's a schedule, but Sunday morning is a definite day for sex, regardless of the rest of the week and what may or may not happen, unless one of us is sick.
Have you ever given sexual advice to anyone IRL? If so, who?Yes I have. I started giving advice about birth control and not taking chances when I was about 24, because I was seeing girls becoming sexually active and taking risks, and then sometimes having to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. I gave safe sex advice to my younger brother when he split up with his wife, because things had changed so much between the time he got together with her and the time they split, and I didn't know how up to speed he was on STDs. Good grief, I suddenly remembered, I was about 17 and worked part time in a shop, and one of the girls was engaged and her boyfriend wanted to have sex before the wedding and she was asking ME what she should do! I mean, I was still a virgin myself then! Seems I've been doing this in some way for a long time. The most recent was with my god-daughter a year ago, when she was about 22. I also gave her a vibrator as a gift then. She really appreciated both the talk and the gift.
Is there a question that you have always wanted to be asked? If so, what? And the answer?Not really, but I would love for a photographer I know to ask me to model nude for him, and the answer would be yes. Is that the kind of thing you mean?
If you had 3 days, 3 men and 1 woman at an exclusive resort with you for sexcapades, tell us what you think would happen?LOL! Are we over on Fantasies now? Three men, one woman and three days for sexcapades, huh. Well, if it's a fantasy, that's one thing, but I'm seriously monogamist and it wouldn't happen in RL. If it's a fantasy, however, let me just say, how many cameras can I bring along? I would love to do an incredibly erotic photo shoot, entirely in black and white. Or maybe you've just given me the idea for another story. ;-)Thanks Misty, those are great questions, and now here's one for you.If I were to ask you to be a nude model for me, would you accept it immeadiately, and not protest that you aren't happy with the way you look right now?
"If I were to ask you to be a nude model for me, would you accept it immeadiately, and not protest that you aren't happy with the way you look right now?"
Oh Nenu, you have definitely hit on a nerve there! I HATE having my picture taken, and always have. I find that most people do not know how to photograph well, and often the interpretation of one person differs tremendously from that of another. The pictures that have been taken of me that I hate, others might like ... those that I like, others might hate. However, since you are a photographer, I would be very interested in having you photograph me. I did enjoy working with a photographer for my wedding, and find that when a person does indeed know their craft, the pictures really can tell a story. I think part of my dislike of being photographed is that I feel there is nothing really captured. I have very few pictures from my lifetime that I admire (of myself). Of the pictures that I have personally taken of others, I always prefer the ones that speak of something. Of course, I'm not a photography buff, so I don't often take pictures that I truly treasure of others either!
Hopefully your photographer friend will ask you to model for him. I'm sure that you have your own poses you would like to capture during that time as well.
How many nude subjects have you photographed?
my partner in the siggy exchange
"Or maybe you've just given me the idea for another story. ;-)"
Notice, I didn't send you on a cruise with your playmates (LOL). I'm sure many would welcome another story as the current one has impressed many with your talents, me included.
my partner in the siggy exchange
Hey Nenu!!!
Ok here goes
1-Do you have animals...if so what?
2-What is the last book you read?
3-How often do you give your DH oral?
4-Do you swallow?
5-Where do you live?
6-How old were you when you got married?
7-What your favorite thing to take pictures of?
8-How old are you?
9-Favorite food?
10-What kind of car do you drive?
Hello Nenu!
I think this is a good way for me to get to know you better. I enjoy reading your posts so much...I think you are a wonderfully gifted woman.
What will surely put a smile on your face...no matter what your mood might be?
You are so wonderfully expressive...is there an area of your life where expression is a bit more difficult for you?
What frustrates you?
What part of the human form do you find most beautiful?
What is it that you never tire of?
Mrs P......
Mrs P
Welcome to the board msc87.
I think you will get a better response if you start a discussion with your questions. This particular thread is designed for members to ask questions of nenuphar_19 in a manner to get to know her better. Not all members will read this; however, if you start a discussion with a title (something like "Alternatives to Anal Sex") members that would be interested in answering would respond directly to your post.
my partner in the siggy exchange
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