Let's Talk About ... sdartist

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 6:47am

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 6:50am
Here are some questions to get you started. Hope you enjoy your thread ;-)



Have you ever had a really embarrassing sexual moment? (tell about it if you want to)



Have you ever dyed your pubs, (dayglo orange maybe)?



How long have you been into water sports?



What is your favorite way to have an orgasm?



How many opportunities did you have to take a females virginity?



When you worked, did you ever take off for the day just to have sex?



What is the most surprising thing your DW has done sexually with you?



Do you and DW have a collection of sex toys? If so, what is your favorite one to use on her?



Have you ever used a medication like Viagra or Cialis?



If you could spend 3 days being intimate with your DW anywhere in the world, where would you choose to be?



What is one sexual thing that you would like to do that you have never done?



If you had a nude photo taken of you, would you prefer it be in color or black & white?



Do you think 13 is an unlucky number?












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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 10:56am
Here are some questions to get you started. Hope you enjoy your thread ;-)

Thanks, Misty! I'm gonna try.

Have you ever had a really embarrassing sexual moment? (tell about it if you want to)

I don't know that it's really embarrassing, but I sure was red faced at the time. It happened when my first wife and I were in bed, she had her hand wrapped around my little friend and I began thrusting, I kept going, she didn't remove her hand, so I thought she wanted me to come in her hand...so I did.

I was mistaken, she had other plans for it, and was not too happy.

Have you ever dyed your pubs, (dayglo orange maybe)?

Never have done that, but nature seems to be doing that for me. They are slowly turning a regal (as I tell myself) white.

I wonder if Just For Men would work down there?

How long have you been into water sports?

I've found women peeing to be very erotic since I was a child, but didn't allow myself to admit it until I was in my '30's.

Still I was ashamed of my desires so didn't explore it until about two years ago when my wife and I first met and we made the decision that we were not going to hold anything back from each other. We discussed the things we had always wanted to do..no matter how naughty we may have thought them to be, and we went for it.

What is your favorite way to have an orgasm?

Believe it or not, my favorite way to have an orgasm is face to face in the missionary position, with my wife looking at my face as I come and me looking into her eyes. Naturally I enjoy orgasms in many positions, variety is the spice of life after all, but that one gives us both the warm fuzzy love feelings that keep us cuddling for a long time.

How many opportunities did you have to take a females virginity?

None. I've been terribly shy most of my life and except for a few childhood explorations I didn't have sex until I was well into my twenties, and then only with women my own age who were all experienced. I did lose my own virginity very early on followed by a long, long dry spell.

When you worked, did you ever take off for the day just to have sex?

No, sadly. Due to my shyness and upbringing I kept my sexual drive repressed until recently, and though I played "hooky" on a number of occasions I never thought to do it for a day long romp in the hay. *sadface*

What is the most surprising thing your DW has done sexually with you?

Dug her nails into my back while we were having intercourse. I know that it's not that uncommon but I'd never experienced it before. At first I was taken aback but then I got off on the fact that it was her passion driving it. Now I love it and encourage her to dig in.

Do you and DW have a collection of sex toys? If so, what is your favorite one to use on her?

I did buy an anal bead stick for my wife to use on me and we've tried it once, but she prefers to use her finger so she can feel inside of me, so it's sitting in a drawer. I also bought some hand restraints which I intend to use on her someday. :-)

Have you ever used a medication like Viagra or Cialis?

I never have, not that I don't suffer from a flat tire on occasion. But I found that if I change my diet, if I eat strictly healthy foods with lots of zinc, and don't fret about my ability to have an erection that I return to fully mission capable in short order.

If you could spend 3 days being intimate with your DW anywhere in the world, where would you choose to be?

It's a place we've already planned to go to next year; a river cruise in Europe, on a boat where the cabins have full length windows looking out over the shoreline. If anyone on the banks of the river have night vision goggles they'll get an eyeful.

What is one sexual thing that you would like to do that you have never done?

A MFM where my wife and I both take advantage of the other male or where he would masturbate while watching us.

If you had a nude photo taken of you, would you prefer it be in color or black & white?

My wife has taken plenty of nude, color pictures of me. I wonder what they'd look like if I use the computer to make them black and white? Hmmm....

Do you think 13 is an unlucky number?

Nope. I think large falling objects or some guy name "Bubba" tailgating me on the freeway are unlucky, but not a number.




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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:22am
I wonder if Just For Men would work down there?


They do have a beard and mustache colorer that might just work for ya!



Does your DW know that you would like to have a MFM? If so, what is her reaction?


I also wanted to mention that I chuckle every time I see your siggy!












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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:49am
Does your DW know that you would like to have a MFM? If so, what is her reaction?

Yes, she does know. She was a bit unsettled until I explained that I also found the sight of a man orgasming to be erotic. But neither of us is comfortable with the idea of including anyone else in our love making so it’s just one of those thoughts that we’ve shared but choose not to act upon.

I also wanted to mention that I chuckle every time I see your siggy!

Thanks. I’m just a minimalist at heart. *big grin*

Now, my question for you… I love to see old couples holding hands, showing that they are still deeply in love. Can you name two or three things that you consider vital for a committed and loving couple in keeping the flames of passion alive?



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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 12:01pm
Now, my question for you… I love to see old couples holding hands, showing that they are still deeply in love. Can you name two or three things that you consider vital for a committed and loving couple in keeping the flames of passion alive?




My hubby and I also love to see older couples holding hands and showing signs of affection. We very much picture ourselves like that when we are older.



I think to keep the flames of passion alive, the couple needs to set time aside for themselves -- shutting out the rest of the world. They also need to be able to communicate and be open to each others wants and desires, within reason. For us, another key ingredient to our relationship is that we each feel lucky to be with the other -- even after 17 years!












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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 5:57pm

Hello.


Sdartist, I'd like to ask a couple of questions.


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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 7:45pm
What plan of action would you use to surprise your wife (not fantasyland) with a day/night of sex that would physically leave you, and her, exhausted?

Hi A! Well, first I’d make it on a long weekend when my wife has had a couple of days off to rest and unwind. I’d start off by waiting on her hand and foot, treating her like the Queen she is to me. I’d make her breakfast, give her a massage, go out and work in the garden for her so I’d be all sweaty and manly like she loves.

Then I’d come back in, walk up behind her, pin her arms to her side and whisper in her ear….”Now you’re mine.”

I’d force her into the bedroom, rip off her clothes and throw her on the bed. If she resisted me I’d spank her bottom until it’s cherry red. Then I’d repeat…”You’re mine.” and take her.

Trust me, she’d love it ‘cause this is what she’s wanted me to do for a long time. It’s something I’m working towards doing, but being so physical is taking a lot of retraining for me.

If you could have sex on any mainstream cable channel, what channel would it be and why?

Well, it wouldn’t be Speed TV I hope. I think any of the documentary channels such as National Geographic. It’s be a show about upper middle aged and older couples and how they can continue to love and make throughout their golden years.

Now your question...what one thing would you like to experience that you've never done before? Either sexual or not, your choice.




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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 10:39pm

Hey Sdartist!


1-What cd is in your radio right now?


2-How many animals do you have?


3-What did you do before you retired?


4-How long have you been married?


5-What do you do with yourself now that you're retired?

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:00pm
Hi kendenrayne!

1-What cd is in your radio right now?

Tool - 10,000 Days

2-How many animals do you have?

Officially living in the house, two. One male Maine Coon cat and a female Yorkshire Terrier. Both of 'em near and dear to our hearts. Unofficially we have dozens of rabbits, squirrels, lizards and a couple of road runners living on our property.

3-What did you do before you retired?

I was a computer desktop support technician for a local company. I fixed what people broke. And they broke a lot of stuff.

4-How long have you been married?

My lovely wife and I have been married for six months now. We met two years ago through the Internet.

5-What do you do with yourself now that you're retired?

I paint pictures. I've started concentrating on pet portraiture and it gives me a great deal of satisfaction. I love critters.

Your turn now, I'm going to ask the same thing I asked an_inquiring_mind; what one thing would you like to experience that you've never done before? Either sexual or not, your choice.



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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 12:06am

Your turn now, I'm going to ask the same thing I asked an_inquiring_mind; what one thing would you like to experience that you've never done before? Either sexual or not, your choice.



I will, one of these days swim with a dolphin.

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