lets talk about sex.

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Registered: 02-12-2005
lets talk about sex.
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Sat, 02-12-2005 - 2:19pm
I hate to bring this up,but is any one hearing inpaired and how it affects intimacy??I am an older pasionate,sensual woman that is really wanting great sex again.I miss being able to hear what a man would whisper to you in the heat of passion.i can leave aid in but am afraid of losing it.i have a black lover that i know would take very good care of me in Chicago,He has told me what kind of unselfish lover he will be.i told nim we can just use body language.LOL.I am curious as to others ideas
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sat, 02-12-2005 - 4:32pm

I am not hearing impaired, but I *love* when DH looks directly into my eyes and mouths what he is going to do to me. I don't think you should worry about your hearind aid falling out, a caring lover wouldn't give it a second thought :)

Leticia

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Sun, 02-13-2005 - 1:31am
I'm not hearing impaired, but have hearing loss in one ear. In bed, I have to be on a certain side in order to hear everything he says. My man doesn't whisper anything in my ear - he just nibbles it. We talk before and after, but during not much is spoken - only the sounds of ecstasy, and it's more on my part than his.
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Registered: 02-12-2005
Mon, 02-14-2005 - 2:09am
Thank you both so much for answering.I am sure my future lover will be very sure of not hurting my feelings and he says he is NOT a selfish lover.always says a good lover takes very good care of his woman before himself.said my size,height ect...does NOT matter.I have been seperated from 2nd husband now for 16 years and just now getting back into the dating game but feel like i am ready to be a great lover.its just that i cant affort to lose my aid as i do NOT hear well without it.So i guess i will just remove it and enjoy the ride.LOL.Annie