A little help in the prego department...
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| Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:34am |
Hi everyone!
I haven't mentioned it in the 2-3 messages I've posted since its occurance, but I'm pregnant with our 3rd child. I'm due August 30th, so things are getting pretty big around here! Its very exciting and I feel better than I ever did with my previous pregnancies. Sex on the other hand, is starting to become a little complicated, which never happened in my last two.
My husband and I have always had a very active and extensive sex life, and my sex drive has always, and still is ridiculous. I'm a SAHM, and a huge part of my life is sex! The complications come from my size this time around. My belly is MUCH larger then my previous times, and its going to get bigger! DH and I typically engage in anal sex most everyday, usually in the morning and while in the shower. We often make love vaginally daily as well, usually at night after the kids are asleep. Each of these is starting to become difficult. I'm looking for tips on how to get around this? For the anal sex, I'm able to bend over just like always, but am unable to tolerate his penis long enough for us to reach climax. As for later, my husband usually enters me three ways. Missionary, missionary w/ my legs up and next to my head, and reverse missionary w/ me lying flat on my stomach and my legs slightly apart. Obviously the last one is out. My belly is too big to even allow his penis near my vagina in standard missionary. We've been sticking to legs up for now, but I'm afraid there is going to be a point here soon where that could be dangerous to the baby.
Typically in my last trimester, sex stops and we switch to me giving him blow jobs and breast sex, but I would like to get sex to work while I still can! Any tips would be great!!

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Hi j12775!
I'm new to the sex and love boards, and haven't posted anywhere in a while...
I hear ya on the pregnancy issue. I've only had one, and our sex life did get a little iffy for a while. I found rear entry while laying sideways worked well, as well as my husband making love to me standing up, while i lay on a surface equal in heght to his crotch.
I have to say I find it very interesting that you have anal sex every morning! I looked over a couple of your previous messages, and it seems like this is quite the routine for you. Does that really take place every morning before he heads to work, and always in the shower? I guess that just seems like a lot of giving, without much receiving, but thats just me.
I didn't get big with either of my pregnancies but enough to make missionary uncomfortable towards the end.
Hello friend.
Grab your ankles huh! That sounds hot!!! My DH has been bugging me about anal sex for a little while now, and I was thinking about giving in here soon. I think tonight may be the night as it turns out, and I think I'll surprise him by not only being game for anal, but inviting him into the shower, and immediately doing the grab my ankles thing. Then... butt in air... just say " Go for it!"
Mandi, I don't want to discourage you, but that might not be the best way to attempt anal sex for the first time. There's a lot of delicate tissue, AND a lot of damage can be done. I think once you're used to anal, the rules can change a little, but to get started, you might want to look over some of the advice in these links:
Adventurous Intimacy: 6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,b31g,00.html
I want to try anal sex
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_602026,00.html
Second Opinions: Anal Sex
What you should know
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/0,,7558qs10,00.html
Anal sex can be a wonderful experience, but it often takes more than one attempt and some getting used to. It definitely takes some preparation, so I really do hope you look over these articles.
Good luck once you do give it a try. Keep us posted on how things go.
Yeah I have already experienced anal sex one time before. My husband entered me anally on our wedding night actually! We had sex for hours and did just about everything, but we just have never done it since as I didn't mind it, but it just wasn't my favorite.
Well... tonght I did give my husband his present! As soon as we finished dinner and the boys were in bed I told him a wanted to take a shower, and said that he if he felt like joining me he might find something he liked. Once he hopped in, I let him stare at me while a soaped up a little bit. After I could tell his penis was ready to go... I asked him where he wanted to put it. He just said, "inside you", and so then I did it! I turned around, bent over, and grabbed my ankles. Then I said... " Why don't you put it a little higher this time?" He immediately zoomed his penis towards my butt, and started working it in. I'm not gonna lie, it was a little difficult maintaining grip of my ankles the whole time until he finished, especially when he finished, but it was VERY intense!!! The whole thing turned me on like crazY!! Thanks so much for enlightening me to this J12775! My DH isn't exactly small down there, and he was in up to his pelvic bone almost instantly!!! Its a very weird feeling when its in that far and
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