A little help in the prego department...

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Registered: 11-07-2007
A little help in the prego department...
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:34am

Hi everyone!


I haven't mentioned it in the 2-3 messages I've posted since its occurance, but I'm pregnant with our 3rd child. I'm due August 30th, so things are getting pretty big around here! Its very exciting and I feel better than I ever did with my previous pregnancies. Sex on the other hand, is starting to become a little complicated, which never happened in my last two.


My husband and I have always had a very active and extensive sex life, and my sex drive has always, and still is ridiculous. I'm a SAHM, and a huge part of my life is sex! The complications come from my size this time around. My belly is MUCH larger then my previous times, and its going to get bigger! DH and I typically engage in anal sex most everyday, usually in the morning and while in the shower. We often make love vaginally daily as well, usually at night after the kids are asleep. Each of these is starting to become difficult. I'm looking for tips on how to get around this? For the anal sex, I'm able to bend over just like always, but am unable to tolerate his penis long enough for us to reach climax. As for later, my husband usually enters me three ways. Missionary, missionary w/ my legs up and next to my head, and reverse missionary w/ me lying flat on my stomach and my legs slightly apart. Obviously the last one is out. My belly is too big to even allow his penis near my vagina in standard missionary. We've been sticking to legs up for now, but I'm afraid there is going to be a point here soon where that could be dangerous to the baby.


Typically in my last trimester, sex stops and we switch to me giving him blow jobs and breast sex, but I would like to get sex to work while I still can! Any tips would be great!!


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 11:00pm

Thanks for the follow up, Mandi!

Glad to hear everything went well .... and was enjoyed by all ;-)





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Registered: 11-07-2007
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 3:51am

Glad to hear that you enjoyed it! I think that may be the only act DH and I will enjoy right up to the big day. Like I mentioned, things are beginning to feel a little crowded down there when we have anal sex, but ironically enough, its still more simple than vaginal sex at this point. And grabbing

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