Long time lurker--phone sex ? need help!

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Registered: 06-08-2005
Long time lurker--phone sex ? need help!
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:55pm

Ok, this may sound really strange to some, but I am 30 years old and have never had phone sex.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 10:46pm

Go slow. This is not a race to the intercourse part. If you get there too fast you kinda run out of things to talk about!

Generally speaking there's a couple of ways that you can do it. You can either describe in detail what you are REALLY doing as you speak to him on the phone (and that'll no doubt involve masturbating so get yourself into a comfortable chair), or you can make up a story.
You take an idea, a scenario, and let it bounce around and develop, describing it as you go. You can describe everything and then add detail where you need to so that someone-else can get a picture in their mind.

Describe what you are seeing in your mind. How everything is positioned and proximity eg. I'm just lightly touching your penis and running my fingertips gently up and down it.
Describe how it physically feels.
It's so warm and soft, yet so hard.
Describe how it makes you feel, emotionally and physically.
I'm feeling all warm, and I can feel myself getting wet. Very wet.
Describe what you're doing in detail.
I reach down and touch myself, I'm so warm and soft. Slippery. You can hear me moan as I brush a wet finger across my clit, teasing myself...

Then you give him a chance to continue the story himself.

Nothing is set in stone though. Just go with the flow. It's a story that you make up as you go along. Have fun! ;-)

PS: Pop on over to the Fantasises board and read some of the stories there. They might give you an idea or two on how to word things.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 10:12am

If you're so sure it's going to "lead" to phone sex, I guess that means you think he's going to initiate it. So, follow his lead.

Here's a place that will give you "lessons" on "erotic talk".....http://www.sexuality.org/talk.html Check it out.