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| Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:39am |
How can I go about having orgasms more often? Right now I can pretty much orgasm every day or two times in one day if I don’t have sex every day. Any information or insight on how I can increase the amount of orgasms that I can have so I can have sex even more often?

Are you male or female?
What you're saying is you get erections, you have intercourse, but often you can't "finish" with a climax/ejaculation? Have you seen a doctor about it? That would be the place to start. If there's nothing wrong with you physically, then it's something in your subconscious holding it back. That's something you'd have to figure out for yourself, or maybe with the help of a therapist.
Can you finish yourself manually if you can't finish during intercourse? If so, it's probably NOT something physical, but some unknown hang-up you have about it.
The first thing you need to worry about is why isn't it happening the first time, instead of worrying about doing it twice. Most men can do it twice, or even more often, but usually it takes a "rest" period between times.
Start with the basics. Fix the first and most important problem, THEN worry about seconds.
Welcome to the board godforbid. Are you actually looking to have more orgasms or to ejaculate more frequently? It is possible for a male to have an orgasm without the necessity of ejaculation.
As for the frequency of either, it will vary from male to male. Many outside influences (like fatigue) can keep either from happening. Here are a couple of links that you might find helpful:
"Is it true that men can have multiple orgasms?"
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/sexexpert/qas/0,,696792_705897,00.html
Understanding The Male Orgasm
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_100/143b_love_tip.html
Hope this information helps.